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S-Bridge at Garvan Woodland Gardens

S-Bridge at Garvan Woodland Gardens in Hot Springs, Arkansas

This evening I spent some time helping my son learn to properly navigate his bike. Jackson is a good kid but one that is spoiled because so many things come easy to him. Consequently, he can get pretty frustrated when something takes a little more effort than he thinks should be the case. Bike riding is one of those things.

Tonight we were practicing curves. Unfortunately for his little knees, it turned out to be more about curbs. Still, curves are absolutely necessary skills to learn in riding a bike. I laughed out loud when he yelled to me from some distance away, “You know, it would be a lot easier if I could just go in straight lines!”

That was one of the simplest but most profound statements I’ve heard in quite a while. Think about it. He’s exactly right. Straight lines are always easier. You can almost manage straight lines in your sleep, as a matter of fact.

But curves — like alarm clocks — are a regular part of life. . . .something we can pretty well count on.

As my family and I traveled last week, we were frightened at times by the difficulty of the curves in the roads on which we traveled. But we were also captivated by the beauty of the landscape those crooked trails enabled us to enjoy.

At the start of a new week, I caution that you will almost definitely encounter some unforeseen curves in life. . . . perhaps a sickness or injury. . . perhaps a major problem at work. . . maybe a family crisis of some sort. I encourage you to anticipate such challenges and purpose within yourself even now to find meaning in such frustrating and disheartening situations.

And be grateful that you will encounter no curve in life that God did not see coming.

 

Slowing the pace

June 28, 2008 — 1 Comment

Full Moon Bridge at Garvan Woodland Gardens

Fortunately, we were all able to catch a much-needed break during a trip to Hot Springs, Arkansas this week. It was so nice to just sit back and enjoy the larger-than-life vistas of green. . . to not have to set an alarm. . . and to do whatever we wanted whenever we wanted — in the event that we wanted to do anything at all, of course.

I have been increasingly stressed in recent months due to a variety of factors. Perhaps you have too. So many things can cause stress and anxiety, among them relationship difficulties, financial worries, and workplace hostility. Getting away for a time of rest and relaxation does not make all the problems of life go away, but it can provide a much-needed change of perspective — which can go a long way toward helping those issues be a little easier to deal with.

One of the things we noticed during our time away was just the slower pace of life that people in more rural areas seem to enjoy. That’s how it was when I was growing up, and I look back on those times fondly now. I see way too many people who can’t seem to leave the cell phone off and forget about their e-mail, even when vacationing. That is a truly sad commentary on the state of our society. It’s okay to “mellow out” when you’re on vacation.

Those who know me well can attest to the fact that I have mellowed a lot in recent years. . . . even in recent months. I’m not nearly as ambitious as I once was, always chasing after things and stuff that just don’t really matter much in the long run. I’m also not nearly as concerned with what other people think about me. Like me, leave me, whatever suits your fancy. I am who I am, and I’m not likely to change a whole lot.

Hydrangeas in bloom at Garvan Woodland Gardens

On those days when I feel overstressed and underappreciated, I think I’ll just look back at our vacation pictures and remember what things really are the most important ones in life.

If you haven’t yet had a break this summer, I strongly encourage you to take one. It doesn’t have to be fancy or extravagant or expensive. Just get away and enjoy some time with God and family. You’ll be glad you did.