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question markWho are you?

Such a simple question elicits so many kinds of answers. In an attempt to answer that question for myself, I must consult a variety of sources, such as:

  • Birth certificate
  • Social security card
  • Driver’s license
  • Medical records
  • Educational records/background
  • Places of employment
  • Affiliations and professional associations

Of course, those things only provide a small snapshot into who I am. For a broader picture, one must consider my relationships with people who can testify to who I am across time and situations. In work life, these people are commonly thought of as references. Funny thing though. It has been said that a resume is merely a exaggerated look at one’s good points — and a wish list of what he’d one day like to be.

I certainly strive to make sure my resume gives an accurate representation of not only my accomplishments but my character as well. Sadly, that is not true for all people. For me, the far better question is not Who are you? but rather. . .
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transparent butterflyPersonal transparency is one of those things we hear a lot about these days. And while transparency is expected, it is not always respected. Most folks are both fascinated and intrigued by things that are transparent. The same goes for transparent people.

As you might imagine, I get lots of questions about transparency — as a minister, a counselor, and a writer. This post is a little longer than most because I wanted to cover the subject with some level of detail — and transparency!

Those of you who stop by to read my blog on a regular basis — and certainly those of you who know me well — understand that I’m a fairly transparent person. I don’t mind sharing my thoughts and feelings. I welcome civil discourse on most any topic. And I believe that sharing my own personal doubts and struggles provides an element of humanness to what could otherwise be just another ‘perfect person’ blog in cyberspace.

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