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		<title>5 things I&#8217;ve learned in times of crisis</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 20:58:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garrick D. Conner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I spent this past Friday night and Saturday in Mississippi with my family. It was just the kids and me this time, since Michelle had a women&#8217;s ministry meeting scheduled. On Saturday we got up early and spent most of the morning fishing with my brother and his wife. The kids had a ball! As [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=4227&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I spent this past Friday night and Saturday in Mississippi with my family. It was just the kids and me this time, since Michelle had a women&#8217;s ministry meeting scheduled. On Saturday we got up early and spent most of the morning fishing with my brother and his wife. The kids had a ball!</p>
<p>As we made our way back to Little Rock on Saturday evening, I received a phone call from my dad to let me know that an uncle (my mom&#8217;s sister&#8217;s husband) had been seriously injured in a motorcycle accident. As I processed this new information, I couldn&#8217;t help but think about how significant his injuries must be to warrant flying him by helicopter to the hospital in Tupelo and from there to the trauma center in Memphis.</p>
<p>After dropping off the kids at the house, I showered and shaved, refreshed my overnight bag, and headed out to be with my aunt and her sons. Spending time with family in the hospital provides a different perspective. It&#8217;s important to identify lessons from our life experiences. Here are a few of the ones I&#8217;ve been reminded of over the past few days:</p>
<p><strong>1. Life is unpredictable.</strong> We never know what each day will bring. We are not in control; God is. Lives can be forever changed in one moment&#8217;s time. James 4:14 says, <em>&#8220;You do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.&#8221;</em> (ESV)</p>
<p><strong>2. God is always present. </strong>Even during times that are dark, when we feel all alone, there&#8217;s no place we can go to escape His presence. Psalm 46:1 says, <em>&#8220;God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.&#8221;</em> (ESV) I really like the way the New International Reader&#8217;s Version puts it: <em>&#8220;God is our place of safety. He gives us strength. He is always there to help us in times of trouble.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><strong>3. Storms of life provide a new perspective. </strong>Isn&#8217;t it funny how the little things that trouble us each day seem so incredibly insignificant when a major trial comes our way? People of every nation, race, background, and religion status experience very real problems from time to time. Pain, laughter, and music are universal languages.</p>
<p><strong>4. Waiting is never easy. </strong>Whether we&#8217;re waiting to hear a medical update on a loved one&#8217;s condition, waiting on test results, or waiting on God to take away the pain, fear, and anxiety, it&#8217;s always hard to wait. Anxiety builds in the absence of information. No news is not always good news. And our patience is often pushed to the breaking point.</p>
<p><strong>5. True friends are always there.</strong> In times of great difficulty, I&#8217;ve been reminded over and again how many people love me, care for me, and pray for me. Even when no words can change the situation, just having friends &#8216;be there&#8217; makes a world of difference.</p>
<p>This song reminds me to trust God even when difficulties arise. I hope it will bless your heart.</p>
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<p>My uncle remains in very critical condition. Thank you for your prayers for my family.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are some lessons <em>you </em>have learned in times of crisis?</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 07:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It hardly seems possible that the holidays could be here already. After all, didn&#8217;t I just get all those boxes of Christmas decorations back in the attic? Well, maybe not, but in my estimation this has been an incredibly fast year. While there are still several weeks left in this calendar year, one thing is [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3674&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It hardly seems possible that the holidays could be here already. After all, didn&#8217;t I <em>just </em>get all those boxes of Christmas decorations back in the attic? Well, maybe not, but in my estimation this has been an incredibly fast year.</p>
<p>While there are still several weeks left in this calendar year, one thing is certain: This has been a year of dramatic changes. From political uprisings and civil unrest to record-setting weather patterns, 2011 will leave an indelible mark on this world. With all the negative news coming at us &#8217;round the clock, it&#8217;s sometimes hard to focus on the good things.</p>
<p>America has long been the &#8216;land of plenty&#8217; &#8212; or, you might say, the &#8216;land of excess.&#8217; You have to wonder what the early settlers to Plymouth Rock would have to say about the way we live. After all, those folks &#8212; who, according to H. U. Westermayer, constructed seven times as many graves as huts &#8212; still saw fit to set aside a time to give thanks to God. These Puritans were arguably the most impoverished Americans ever, yet they acknowledged God as the source of their blessings. They understood the art of thanksgiving.</p>
<p>In this time of persistent protests and rowdy upheaval, there&#8217;s a lot of talk about &#8216;the  99-percent.&#8217; I contend that pretty much all of us constitute the one-percent . . . at least figuratively speaking. Consider this:</p>
<blockquote><p>Americans are some of the wealthiest people in the world, with a very high GDP per capita. Americans are top in the world for most material possessions. The number of televisions, vehicles, and other such products per person are considerably higher than in any other country. For instance, the United States has some 754 televisions for every thousand people. No other country is even above 700, with Japan being closest at 680/1000. [Source: <a href="http://www.economicexpert.com" target="_blank">economicexpert.com</a>]</p></blockquote>
<p>While Americans don&#8217;t necessarily blow <em>every </em>country out of the water, particularly when you consider the long hours so many of us work, we as a people are undeniably blessed. Even with higher-than-usual levels of unemployment, continued home foreclosures, and rising costs of living, for all intents and purposes Americans are indeed blessed. One thing is generally true about tougher times: We are forced to evaluate priorities, strengthen relationships, and develop character &#8212; and hopefully a much deeper appreciation for God.</p>
<p>This Thanksgiving, consider yourself blessed if any or all of the following statements are true for you:<span id="more-3674"></span></p>
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<li><strong>You have food, clothing, and shelter.</strong><br />
Nearly two billion people in the world live in poverty.</li>
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<ul>
<li><strong>You can read and write.</strong><br />
Nearly 15-percent of people age 15 and up cannot. (worldwide)</li>
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<li><strong>You are gainfully employed &#8212; part-time or full-time.</strong><br />
Millions even in America do not have jobs. (Consider yourself especially blessed if you <em>enjoy</em> your work.)</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You have reasonably good health and access to healthcare services.</strong><br />
Many around the world do not.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You have family who cares about  you.</strong><br />
I recently read about a man who lost every member of his family in an earthquake in Turkey.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You have at least one close friend.</strong><br />
Loneliness is becoming more and more common even in our seemingly connected culture.</li>
</ul>
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<li><strong>You enjoy physical safety and security.</strong><br />
Many people live in constant fear of crime or terror attacks.</li>
</ul>
<p>There are so many other ways by which we can gauge our blessings and quality of life. For me personally, the one thing for which I am most grateful is my relationship with Jesus Christ, who took my sin and shame and died for me that I might enjoy abundant life on earth and eternal life in heaven with Him. Everything else really is gravy. If you don&#8217;t know Him, I&#8217;d love nothing more than to share that gift with you. Feel free to <a href="mailto:garrick.conner@gmail.com" target="_blank">contact me</a>.</p>
<p>I pray that your season of thanksgiving would not be all about a day on the calendar. I pray that you will acknowledge your blessings all year long &#8212; as well as the One from whom all blessings flow. Discover the art of thanksgiving. It can be truly life-changing.</p>
<p>Have a safe and happy Thanksgiving. Here&#8217;s a quick video that says a lot in just 80 seconds:</p>
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IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are you thankful for this year?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today begins the week that draws attention and raises awareness of the dangerous and ever-increasing impact of pornography in our culture. It&#8217;s a problem that has led to the destruction of countless marriages and relationships, including several close friends. Many of you know that my dissertation was centered around developing effective ministries to help combat [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3563&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3574" style="border:0 none;margin-left:3px;margin-right:3px;" title="white-ribbons-against-pornography" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/white-ribbons-against-pornography.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Today begins the week that draws attention and raises awareness of the dangerous and ever-increasing impact of pornography in our culture. It&#8217;s a problem that has led to the destruction of countless marriages and relationships, including several close friends. Many of you know that my dissertation was centered around developing effective ministries to help combat this problem &#8212; a problem that<a href="http://www.stonebriar.org/about-us/staff-elders/staffmembers/Swindoll/" target="_blank"> Chuck Swindoll</a> has called the #1 problem in the church today.</p>
<p>In an <a href="http://www.urbansermons.org/f/wiki/swindolls-open-letter-church" target="_blank">open letter</a> posted to his website several years ago, Swindoll wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>The most recent studies available suggest that one out of every two people &#8212; that&#8217;s 50% &#8212; of the people sitting in our pews, are looking at and/or could be addicted to internet pornography. Stop and imagine the ugly but very real possibility of some of your own elders and deacons leaving your meeting and going home to surf porn. Think about youth leaders viewing it one minute, and leading a small group with your kids thirty minutes later. It&#8217;s ruining marriages, destroying relationships, harming youth, and hurting the body of Christ. . . . My friend, it&#8217;s time to do something about it. In fact, we need to start today. Making a difference requires action . . . . Our churches are in trouble. This is not the time to simply wait and pray.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>I have fought &#8212; and to a large extent still fight daily &#8212; the battle against pornography in my own life. It&#8217;s not a fun thing to talk about. It&#8217;s certainly not something that most people want to think about, especially as it relates to Christians and ministry leaders. However, <em>not </em>acknowledging and <em>not </em>talking about it is precisely why pornography is considered a silent epidemic that impacts far more men and women than you&#8217;d like to know. Sexual temptation really can be thought of as <em>every man&#8217;s battle &#8212; </em>or, for that matter, <em>every person&#8217;s battle. </em>Many studies and surveys have been conducted regarding sexual thoughts and behaviors. While the statistics do not always match, they do almost universally sound major alarms about the severity of the problem. Consider for a moment these statistics:</p>
<p><strong>GENERAL STATISTICS</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>12% of internet websites are pornographic. That&#8217;s 24,644,172 sites! (United Families International)</li>
<li>Every second $3,075.64 is spent on pornography &#8212; and 28,258 people are viewing porn. (UFI)</li>
<li>Total porn industry revenue for 2006: $13.3 billion in the US; $97 billion worldwide.</li>
<li>40 million Americans are regular visitors to porn sites. (UFI)</li>
<li>29% of born-again adults in the US feel that it is morally acceptable to view movies with explicit sexual behavior. (Barna Group)</li>
<li>42% of adults believe it is &#8220;morally acceptable&#8221; to have a sexual relationship with someone of the opposite sex to whom they are not married.</li>
<li>The least popular day of the year for viewing porn is Thanksgiving. (UFI)</li>
<li>The most popular day of the week for viewing porn is Sunday. (UFI)</li>
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<p><strong>REGARDING CLERGY</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>51% of pastors say cyber-pornography is a possible temptation; 37% say it is a current struggle. (<em>Christianity Today</em>, Leadership Survey, December 2001)</li>
<li>20% of all the calls received on the Focus on the Family Pastoral Care Line are for help with issues such as pornography and compulsive sexual behavior.</li>
<li>33% of clergy admitted to having visited a sexually explicit website. Of those who had visited a pornographic site, 53% had visited such sites &#8220;a few times&#8221; in the past year, and 18% visit sexually explicit sites between a couple times a month and more than once a week.</li>
<li>57% of pastors say that addiction to pornography is the most sexually damaging issue to their congregation. (Christians and Sex Leadership Journal Survey, March 2005)</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>REGARDING MEN</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>70% of men from age 18-24 visit a pornographic site in a typical month. (UFI)</li>
<li>67% of 18-26-year-old men believe viewing pornography is acceptable.</li>
<li>66% of men in their 20&#8242;s and 30&#8242;s admit to being regular users of pornography.</li>
<li>20% of men admit to accessing pornography at work. (UFI)</li>
<li>Half of unmarried men ages 20-29 said they would have sex without any interest in marriage.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>REGARDING WOMEN</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>28% of those admitted to sexual addiction are women.</li>
<li>34% of female readers of <em>Today&#8217;s Christian Woman</em>&#8216;s online newsletter admitted to intentionally accessing internet pornography &#8212; and 1 out of every 6 women, including Christians, struggles with an addiction to pornography.</li>
<li>49% of 18-26-year-old women believe viewing pornography is acceptable.</li>
<li>13% of women admit to accessing pornography at work. (UFI)</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>REGARDING FAMILIES</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>47% of Christian families said pornography is a problem in their home. (Focus on the Family, October 2003)</li>
<li>The internet was a significant factor is 2 out of 3 divorces. (American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, 2003)</li>
<li>9 out of 10 children between the ages of 8 and 16 have viewed pornography on the internet, in most cases unintentionally. (London School of Economics, January 2002)</li>
<li>Average age of first internet exposure to pornography: 11 (InternetFilterReview.com and UFI)</li>
<li>Largest consumer of internet pornography: 12-17-year olds (various sources as of 2007)</li>
<li>1 in 7 children who use the internet have been sexually solicited. (InternetFilerReview.com 2005)</li>
<li>80% of 15-17-year-olds have had multiple hard-core exposures.</li>
</ul>
<p>Over the last ten years there have been a number of positive attempts to proactively lift the veil from this dirty little secret. These include efforts by <a href="http://www.promisekeepers.org/" target="_blank">Promise Keepers</a>, <a href="http://www.xxxchurch.com/" target="_blank">XXX Church</a>, <a href="http://newlife.com/emb/" target="_blank">Every Man&#8217;s Battle</a>, and <a href="http://www.freedombeginshere.org/" target="_blank">Freedom Begins Here</a>. I remain convinced, however, that we have much work left to do. It starts with me; it starts with you. I encourage you to take the following steps with regard to this issue:<span id="more-3563"></span></p>
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<li>Get your head out of the sand and acknowledge the reality of pornography&#8217;s influence in our sex-saturated society.</li>
<li>Examine your own life, and honestly assess your risk. <a href="http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfm" target="_blank">Here&#8217;s a helpful tool for self-evaluation</a>.</li>
<li>Purchase a filtering program for your computer, particularly any computers shared by your children &#8212; even occasionally.</li>
<li>If you struggle with sexually compulsive thoughts and/or behaviors, admit this truth to a same-sex friend who can help hold you accountable.  In fact, I urge you to have a set of friends to help keep you honest with yourself and with them. Here&#8217;s a great list of <a href="http://www.menofintegrity.org/articles/accountabilityquestions.html" target="_blank">men&#8217;s accountability questions</a> that can be customized as you see fit. Here are other <a href="http://www.characterthatcounts.org/accountquestnew.html" target="_blank">accountability questions</a> specific to men, women, couples, and teens. I strongly advise you to use an internet monitoring service that reports your internet activity to one or more accountability partners. I have used <a href="http://www.covenanteyes.com/" target="_blank">Covenant Eyes</a> for years and highly recommend it.</li>
<li>Educate your children about the dangers of the internet (including smart phones and apps). I want my kids to learn about sex from me and my wife &#8212; not some online stranger. Don&#8217;t be afraid to start talking with them about it &#8216;too early.&#8217; Chances are good that they already know more than you think.</li>
<li>Educate yourself about the ways kids can circumvent filtering.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t let the enemy convince you that there&#8217;s nothing to worry about.</li>
</ol>
<p>As I said in my dissertation, it&#8217;s the silence that fuels the shame that feeds the addiction. Commit to learn some things during this week of awareness. I challenge you to do  your own internet searches &#8212; but do so very carefully because you just might stumble upon something you don&#8217;t really want or need to see. <a href="http://www.brookhills.org/new/pastor.html" target="_blank">David Platt</a>, pastor of the Church at Brook Hills and author of <em>Radical</em>, will be addressing this issue and a variety of related topics during the Secret Church Simulcast this Friday, November 4. <a href="http://batchgeo.com/map/f86d0290b8bc5c67bba39c93b1ce7a24?intcmp=iTeam3-MTX-SecretChurch-Map" target="_blank">Click here to find a host site near you</a>.</p>
<p>I pray that God will continue to use my own struggles to help other people. To Him alone be the glory!</p>
<p><strong>ADDITIONAL RESOURCES</strong><br />
Here are some additional online resources you might find helpful:</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/www_usn_2.nsf/0/0DAED16C31379FE185257841007249EC/$file/WrapPoster_2011_HIRes.pdf" target="_blank">Full-page flyer</a> explaining this awareness week and offering a number of helpful online resources</li>
<li>Here&#8217;s <a href="http://www.signsofastruggleblog.com/2011/10/who-told-you-you-were-naked.html?mid=513" target="_blank">one of the best articles</a> I&#8217;ve ever read regarding sexual brokenness.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.covenanteyes.com" target="_blank">Covenant Eyes</a> &#8211; Internet monitoring and filtering services</li>
<li><a href="http://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/" target="_blank">Breaking Free</a> &#8211; blog of Covenant Eyes</li>
<li><a href="http://www.strengthenthefamily.net/media/WhiteRibbonWeekIdeas.pdf" target="_blank">Great general information</a> about the facts regarding pornography as well as resources to help you guide your children.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.pornharms.com/slave-master-how-pornography-drugs-changes-your-brain-research/" target="_blank">Informative article </a>about pornography&#8217;s effects on the brain, written by a neurosurgeon</li>
<li><a href="http://www.blazinggrace.org" target="_blank">Blazing Grace</a> &#8211; online resources for sexual addiction</li>
<li><a href="http://www.knightsquest.org" target="_blank">Knight&#8217;s Quest Ministries</a> &#8211; online resources regarding internet safety; workshops and seminars for schools, churches, and organizations</li>
<li><a href="http://www.bethesdaworkshops.org/" target="_blank">Bethesda Workshops</a> &#8211; online resources, healing workshops for sexual addiction and co-addiction with Marnie Ferree</li>
<li><a href="http://www.faithfulandtrueministries.com/" target="_blank">Faithful and True Ministries</a> &#8211; training, counseling, and workshops with Mark and Debbie Laaser</li>
<li><a href="http://unitedfamilies.org/default.asp?contentID=34" target="_blank">The Harms of Pornography</a> &#8211; from United Families International</li>
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<p><strong>Related prior posts:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://garrickdconner.com/2008/04/29/a-beer-on-the-bookshelf/">A Beer on the Bookshelf</a></li>
<li><a href="http://garrickdconner.com/2008/05/17/reading-between-the-lines/">Reading Between the Lines</a></li>
<li><a href="http://garrickdconner.com/2007/12/07/our-societys-1-problem/">Our Society&#8217;s #1 Problem</a></li>
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<p>*Unspecified statistics come from the Archdiocese of Kansas City. For an updated and very detailed statistical report from Covenant Eyes, <a href="http://www.covenanteyes.com/2010/01/06/updated-pornography-statistics/" target="_blank">click here</a>. Even more statistical data provided by Internet Filter Review can be found <a href="http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/internet-pornography-statistics.html" target="_blank">here</a> &#8212; and by Pure Hope by clicking <a href="http://www.purehope.net/stat.asp" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[For people all over the world, September 11, 2001 will be a day that lives in infamy in our memory. It was a day that profoundly changed the way most of us think about life &#8212; and a day that took so many lives and shattered the hopes, hearts, and dreams of so many others. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3502&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3507" style="border:0 none;" title="9-11-2011-America-Remembers" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/9-11-2011-america-remembers.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>For people all over the world, September 11, 2001 will be a day that lives in infamy in our memory. It was a day that profoundly changed the way most of us think about life &#8212; and a day that took so many lives and shattered the hopes, hearts, and dreams of so many others.</p>
<p>On that Tuesday morning I had been in my office at a residential children&#8217;s facility for about an hour when the phone rang. The voice on the other end belonged to my wife, Michelle . . . yet there was a timbre in her tone that instantly conveyed the message that all was not well. Immediately my thoughts rushed to my then eight-month-old son, Jackson, who was in the house with her. But before I could ask about him, Michelle interrupted and asked, &#8220;Have you seen the news?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; I replied, puzzled. I quickly clicked onto a news website and saw &#8216;BREAKING NEWS&#8217; in bright red.</p>
<p>&#8220;A plane has crashed into the World Trade Center,&#8221; she said, her voice shaking. &#8220;It&#8217;s bad, Garrick.&#8221;</p>
<p>I quickly headed to the TV room to turn on the news. Of course, finding the news wouldn&#8217;t be a problem, since it seemed to be on every channel. Within a matter of minutes, I, along with the rest of the waiting world, would soon discover that this was no accident. When the second plane hit the South Tower at three minutes past the hour, I remember my heart just sinking. Those of us gathered around stood speechless, in total disbelief of what our eyes were telling our brains.</p>
<p>In those moments the world as we knew it changed forever. Freedom turned to fear and anxiety to agony as the full scope of this attack on America unfolded in what seemed like slow motion. Within the hour another plane hit the Pentagon in Arlington, Virginia. Reporters on the ground struggled to explain what was happening. They couldn&#8217;t quite wrap their minds around it all either.</p>
<p>By the time <a class="zem_slink" title="United Airlines Flight 93" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=40.0511111111,-78.9047222222&amp;spn=0.01,0.01&amp;q=40.0511111111,-78.9047222222%20%28United%20Airlines%20Flight%2093%29&amp;t=h" rel="geolocation">United Airlines Flight 93</a> crashed in a field near Shanksville, Pennsylvania, I remember thinking to myself, &#8220;When will it end? What&#8217;s next?!&#8221;<span id="more-3502"></span></p>
<p>Of course, my job didn&#8217;t really afford me the luxury of becoming a shell-shocked couch potato, as much as I wanted to be just that. As the manager of that residential program, I was responsible for the emotional and physical well-being of a number of children, ranging in age from five to twelve years. As the houseparents received word that the schools were dismissing children, we all began to shift into survival mode. The kids would have questions. We all did. But the one thing none of us could afford to do was let the kids know we were upset.</p>
<p>I met quickly with our morning shift workers and discussed our action plan for dealing with the kids and their families. Above all, the plan involved channeling our adrenaline into positive thoughts and actions. Somehow on 9/11 the world seemed a whole lot smaller . . . a lot more connected . . . and a lot more caring.</p>
<p>As I went to the store that day, I couldn&#8217;t help but notice that every single person I encountered &#8212; from the customers in the parking lot to the cashier behind the register &#8212; was feeling much the same as me. I couldn&#8217;t wait to go to bed that night. I think something inside of me thought that maybe if I could just get to sleep, then when I woke up I&#8217;d realize that the chaos of that day had been nothing more than a bad dream. As I would find out on Wednesday morning, it was an absolute nightmare &#8212; a national one with far-reaching implications for every person on the planet: Evil is real, and there&#8217;s no way to escape its influence in our lives.</p>
<p>Now ten years later, I look back on 9/11 and feel things much the same that I felt on that very day. As I reflect on that dark time in our nation&#8217;s history, one thing stands out perhaps more than any other. In the few days following 9/11, people were nicer . . . friendlier . . . more grateful for the little things. In those times people turned to the church for comfort, for solace, and for answers to questions the world couldn&#8217;t seem to explain.</p>
<p>Like a person who suddenly lost a neighbor or friend, the whole country was made fully aware of the fragility of life, the uncertainty of tomorrow, the amazing lack of control we have over so many things. As we remember 9/11 and pray for those whose lives were irrevocably changed due to the evil plans of a few, wouldn&#8217;t it be great if we could somehow recapture that appreciation for life we all had once the fires were extinguished and the dust began to settle?</p>
<p>Perhaps the very best tribute we could offer on this day of remembrance would be to again hug our families tightly, do something kind for a neighbor, and thank God for the many blessings we each enjoy. The heroes who died bravely striving to save lives on that day wouldn&#8217;t want us to wallow in self-pity. They&#8217;d want us to fully embrace the wonder of this gift of life . . . to treasure each moment with family and friends . . . and to fight passionately to keep the freedom that still makes America a beacon of light today.</p>
<p>Surely we can muster the courage to do that. Surely.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What 9/11 memories most stand out in your mind? What do you see as the enduring lessons from this page in our nation&#8217;s history?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every now and then I find myself struggling with discouragement. I suppose that&#8217;s true for most people. Sometimes these times of discouragement seem to come out of nowhere. Other times they&#8217;re due to the emotional drain of a flopped project, a soured relationship, or simply a realization of how truly human I am in a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3362&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3367" style="border:0;margin:3px 4px;" title="affirmation-file" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/affirmation-file.jpg?w=300&h=238" alt="" width="300" height="238" /></a>Every now and then I find myself struggling with discouragement. I suppose that&#8217;s true for most people. Sometimes these times of discouragement seem to come out of nowhere. Other times they&#8217;re due to the emotional drain of a flopped project, a soured relationship, or simply a realization of how truly human I am in a world where human often seems not good enough.</p>
<p>Ministry leaders are particularly prone to discouragement due to the intense demands on their time and families as well as the extremely relational nature of the work. The truth is that most of us really do want to please people, but there&#8217;s absolutely no way to please all the people all the time.<em></em></p>
<p>It&#8217;s on these down days that my affirmation file comes in very handy. I keep this tattered file in one of my desk drawers. It has made a number of moves through the years as I&#8217;ve followed God to different places along my ministry journey. The label on the tab says simply &#8216;Affirmation/Encouragement,&#8217; and it&#8217;s filled with cards, letters, and notes of appreciation from various people I&#8217;ve met along the way. Over the past few years, an increasing percentage of these items are in the form of email and Facebook print-outs. Most of the notes are from people I know pretty well, although some are from those with whom my life intersected only briefly as I led a workshop, officiated a funeral,  or ministered in some other way.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve kept a file like this for as long as I can remember, and I strongly recommend that you keep one too &#8212; for several key reasons:<span id="more-3362"></span></p>
<p><strong>1. You need reminders of the really good moments in your life.</strong> One of the enemy&#8217;s greatest and most effective tools is that of discouragement. Written words have value long after the ink dries. When discouragement comes I essentially have two choices: I can wallow in self-pity (which accomplishes nothing helpful), or I can focus on my blessings, strengths, and past accomplishments. I like to think that the <a class="zem_slink" title="Paul the Apostle" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_the_Apostle" rel="wikipedia">apostle Paul</a> might have kept an affirmation file too. Writing to the Philippians, he said:</p>
<blockquote><p>Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. &#8211; Philippians 4:8, ESV</p></blockquote>
<p>Paul is often described as a sort of spiritual superhero who, like Superman, underwent an almost instantaneous transformation when he encountered Jesus on the road to Damascus. Clearly, as one who had a legacy of persecuting believers, Paul could have focused on his past sins and selfish actions. Instead he made the choice to channel his energies into being different and doing good things, all for the sake of the gospel message.</p>
<p><strong>2. You need perspective in times of self-doubt.</strong> We often go through seasons of life in which our struggles seem never-ending. Re-reading the materials in my affirmation file helps me remember that God uses me to make a difference in the lives of others, even at times when I&#8217;m totally unaware of my influence. I find that I am my own worst critic, and the notes in my file remind me that plenty of people are with me, for me, and behind me &#8212; encouraging me to finish strong in this marathon of life.</p>
<p><strong>3. You need &#8220;strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow.&#8221;</strong> Those are words from one of my favorite hymns, &#8220;<a class="zem_slink" title="Great Is Thy Faithfulness" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Is_Thy_Faithfulness" rel="wikipedia">Great is Thy Faithfulness</a>.&#8221; I draw a lot of strength from the power of God&#8217;s Word. So many of the items in my affirmation file contain a Scripture verse that is just what I need to hear in days of trial. Many of those verses are near and dear to my heart. They are constant reminders that God&#8217;s Word never returns void.</p>
<p>An added benefit of keeping an affirmation file is its intrinsic ability to help me practice gratitude to others. A hand-written note or other expression of encouragement can absolutely speak life into someone&#8217;s day.</p>
<p>May you find joy and encouragement as you live and lead, and may you find joy as you affirm others along life&#8217;s path.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>Do you keep an affirmation file? How are you impacted by a written expression of gratitude?</p>
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		<title>Starting over again</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I must confess that my wife and I have looked at many houses during our time together. Both of us enjoy walking through houses and getting a feel for the layout, the time period of construction, and if possible, a peak into the kind of life the previous occupants may have lived. Michelle really enjoys [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3339&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/starting-over-again.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3342" style="border:0 none;margin-left:4px;margin-right:4px;" title="starting-over-again" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/starting-over-again.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>I must confess that my wife and I have looked at many houses during our time together. Both of us enjoy walking through houses and getting a feel for the layout, the time period of construction, and if possible, a peak into the kind of life the previous occupants may have lived.</p>
<p>Michelle really enjoys watching almost anything on <a class="zem_slink" title="HGTV" href="http://www.hgtv.com/" rel="homepage">HGTV</a>. She has a love for houses &#8212; and a keen eye for interior design. Every now and then we encounter a house that has a history. An obviously <em>bad</em> history. Sometimes the damage seems only slight &#8212; perhaps needing fresh paint, new carpet, or just a deep cleaning. Other times the damage is absolutely overwhelming. We&#8217;ve seen homes with faulty plumbing (and subsequent water damage), buckled floors, trashed walls, broken windows &#8212; and that&#8217;s just in the first half of the house.</p>
<p>Sometimes the problems are due entirely to neglect. In others, a very different story is told. In one particular case, it was clear that the previous occupants had lived together during a nasty divorce. If walls could talk . . . well, the holes in them did.</p>
<p>The question for the prospective buyer is a big one indeed: Where in the world does one begin to repair the damage? The options are seemingly endless, and the amount of time and money required are hard to conceive.</p>
<p>The same is true for ourselves &#8212; on a spiritual level. There are times when we get off track. The slide begins with a lack of attention to daily time with God (usually paired with a rationalization of recurring sin), and it proceeds to sporadic church attendance and almost non-existent personal worship. One day we wake up and realize that we are completely disconnected from the community of faithful believers that once was so vital to spiritual health and growth. A similar question begins to emerge: How does one begin to repair the damage?</p>
<p>The answer is perhaps not as hard as you might think. I suggest a four-step approach:</p>
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<li><strong>Be honest with yourself &#8212; and with God.</strong> Take some time to think through the reasons for your getting out of sync spiritually. Incidentally, this may require a serious evaluation of your true spiritual condition. If you&#8217;re trying to be a &#8216;good Christian&#8217; in your own power, then you&#8217;re way off base. Remember, we&#8217;re saved by faith alone &#8212; but our actions bear witness to His transforming work in us.</li>
<li><strong>Commit to begin again.</strong> Everybody needs a fresh start every now and then. Fortunately, the Lord&#8217;s mercies are new each morning. He constantly pursues a love relationship with us, and He will gladly help you as you re-engage by doing the things you <em>know </em>you should be doing. Identifying past barriers and obstacles to your spiritual growth can help prevent another such slide.</li>
<li><strong>Find someone to help you.</strong> I absolutely can&#8217;t emphasize this one strongly enough. While your relationship with Christ is a personal thing, you need to realize the necessity of having others to help you. I encourage you to find a couple of solid Christian friends (same-sex, if you&#8217;re married) to hold you accountable, particularly in the areas where you&#8217;re prone to struggle most. And by all means, make sure you&#8217;re involved in a Bible study class or small group that provides an opportunity for fellowship with other believers.</li>
<li><strong>Follow through.</strong> Realize that nothing you think about doing will be helpful until you actually <em>do it</em>. So many times it&#8217;s easy to identify trouble spots &#8212; even obvious solutions &#8212; and then get distracted by something else. And to be quite frank, Satan is counting on you <em>not </em>following through &#8212; or being sidetracked by things of the world. The reality is that only <em>you</em> can decide whether your relationship with Christ is really priority in your life. I happen to believe the old saying is still true: &#8220;Jesus has no place in your life unless He has first place in your life.&#8221;</li>
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<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are some other things that help you get back on track when you falter in your spiritual life?</p>
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		<title>God is in control</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every now and then we are reminded that He is God, and we are not. Lately those reminders seem to come stacked, layered, and more closely together than used to be the case. Or maybe I&#8217;m just at a point of discovering the depths of this reality for myself. Indeed the first one-third of this year [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3309&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3313" style="margin-left:4px;margin-right:4px;border:0;" title="tornado-tuscaloosa" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/tornado-tuscaloosa.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Every now and then we are reminded that He is God, and we are not. Lately those reminders seem to come stacked, layered, and more closely together than used to be the case. Or maybe I&#8217;m just at a point of discovering the depths of this reality for myself.</p>
<p>Indeed the first one-third of this year has been full of trials for many all over the world. From the political uprisings in the Middle East, to the earthquakes and tsunamis in various places, to the violent and deadly storms just this week, the news reads like a dramatic screenplay of <a href="http://www.biblestudytools.com/esv/matthew/24.html">Matthew 24</a>.</p>
<p>In times like these I often ask the question, &#8220;How do people who have no faith in God make sense of the trials of this life?&#8221; I don&#8217;t necessarily know the answer to that question, but I do know that He has placed believers in this world to be the hands and feet of Christ to a world that very much needs to know He is real.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s easy in a world populated by some six billion people to have a diminished sense of responsibility. How often have you thought &#8212; or even said &#8212; to yourself, &#8220;Someone else will do it?&#8221; Friends, what if <em>we</em> are that <em>someone</em>? Now is not the time to roll over and say, &#8220;Woe is me.&#8221; Now is the time to stand up to the challenges at hand, with full confidence and faith in Christ that He will work <em>through </em>us to help usher in His Kingdom on earth.</p>
<p>In his book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Missional-Small-Groups-Community-Difference/dp/0801072301/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1304001168&amp;sr=1-1">Missional Small Groups</a></em>, author M. Scott Boren writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>I find it interesting that Jesus told His disciples, &#8220;You are salt, . . . light . . . a city on a hill.&#8221; He did not say, &#8220;You should be . . . ,&#8221; &#8220;You would be if . . . ,&#8221; or &#8220;You could be if . . . .&#8221; He declared who they were and equipped them to live in a way that fit this declaration.</p></blockquote>
<p>Jesus never promised His followers that this life would be easy; quite the contrary. His words in John 16:33 are clear: &#8220;In the world you will have tribulation.&#8221; Thankfully He doesn&#8217;t stop there. &#8220;But take heart; I have overcome the world.&#8221; He will walk <em>with us</em> through the storms of life, and that brings me great comfort.</p>
<p>I also love this reminder from Psalm 46:1-3:</p>
<blockquote><p>God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble at its swelling. (ESV)</p></blockquote>
<p>No matter what happens in this world, we can be assured that God is still fully in control.</p>
<p>Whatever trial or trouble you may be facing today, know that if you belong to Christ, then you need not worry about the things of this life because we have the promise of ultimate victory in Him. Just know that the trials we face often provide us with a context in which to connect others to the redemptive message of the Gospel. Let&#8217;s be diligent to not squander such opportunities.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m mindful today of the words of this familiar chorus:</p>
<blockquote><p>People need the Lord. People need the Lord.<br />
At the end of broken dreams, He&#8217;s the open door.<br />
People need the Lord. People need the Lord.<br />
When will we realize that we must give our lives,<br />
For people need the Lord.</p>
<p>(Phillip J. McHugh &amp; Greg Nelson, 1983)</p></blockquote>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Good Friday, April 22 thousands of Americans will participate in the Secret Church Simulcast with David Platt. This is a live event broadcast from the Church at Brook Hills in Birmingham, AL where the 32-year-old Platt is senior pastor. You may recognize the name, as he is author of the New York Times best-seller Radical &#8212; and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3268&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.lifeway.com/secretchurch" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3298" style="margin-left:4px;margin-right:4px;border:0;" title="SC-Promo-Blog-CDT" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/sc-promo-blog-cdt.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>On Good Friday, April 22 thousands of Americans will participate in the <a href="http://www.lifeway.com/secretchurch" target="_blank">Secret Church Simulcast</a> with <a href="http://www.brookhills.org/new/pastor.html" target="_blank">David Platt</a>. This is a live event broadcast from the <a href="http://www.brookhills.org/" target="_blank">Church at Brook Hills</a> in Birmingham, AL where the 32-year-old Platt is senior pastor. You may recognize the name, as he is author of the New York Times best-seller <em><a href="http://www.lifeway.com/product/005305152/" target="_blank">Radical</a></em> &#8212; and now <em><a href="http://www.lifeway.com/product/005437047/" target="_blank">Radical Together</a></em>, which was released just yesterday.</p>
<p>A number of churches and small groups across the country will join this event live where they are, thanks to the miracle of modern technology. Platt has held <a href="http://www.brookhills.org/secretchurch/about.html" target="_blank">&#8216;Secret Church</a>&#8216; for several years, and it has now become part of the disciple-making DNA of this local church. Held twice each year, Secret Church continues to draw people from all over the country &#8212; so much so that overflow seating is necessary on-site. This in-depth time of Bible study, worship, and prayer is intended to help us identify with the many Christ-followers who meet in secret all over the world &#8212; not so much out of fear of persecution as devotion to Christ.</p>
<p>For the first time, <a href="http://www.lifeway.com">LifeWay Christian Resources</a> has partnered with Platt&#8217;s mission organization, <a href="http://www.disciplemakingintl.org/">Disciple-Making International</a>, to make this experience available on a whole new level.</p>
<p>Why would a church-going American want to give up six hours on Good Friday night to participate in this event? That&#8217;s the basic question I&#8217;ve heard ever since announcing that my own church would host this event. With that in mind, I offer these five reasons to participate in Secret Church:</p>
<p><strong>1.</strong> <strong>You will be exposed to the vast lostness in this world.</strong> Most Christians in America live in a bubble. We live busy lives that intersect with our own churches at many points. Consequently, we often find ourselves surrounded by people who are, for all intents and purposes, just like us. Secret Church will give you an opportunity to see and hear how other believers live out their faith.</p>
<p><strong>2. You will be challenged to re-evaluate your priorities in light of Scripture. </strong>Many Christians in America are every bit as self-centered as those who do not belong to Christ. We routinely argue over such trivial things as music styles, ministers&#8217; clothing choices, and the temperature of our multi-level church buildings. We spoil ourselves with the latest and greatest gadgets and complain if a worship service goes a few minutes longer than anticipated &#8212; yet wonder why the presence of the Holy Spirit is not sensed more often and more deeply.</p>
<p><strong>3. You will be compelled to know and appreciate God&#8217;s Word. </strong>Most Christians in America possess several copies of the Bible &#8212; but don&#8217;t read it regularly. In fact, a <a href="http://www.barna.org/barna-update/article/12-faithspirituality/317-new-research-explores-how-different-generations-view-and-use-the-bible?q=bible" target="_blank">2009 study</a> by the <a href="http://www.barna.org/" target="_blank">Barna Research Group</a> found that Christians are largely apathetic when it comes to regular reading of Scripture. Still, each year thousands of bibles are smuggled into nations such as China, where there is a deep hunger for the Word of God. David Platt&#8217;s love for the Word drives his missions mentality and heart for evangelism and will no doubt anchor his teaching on Friday night.</p>
<p><strong><strong>4.</strong> <strong>You will be convicted to pray more fervently for the persecuted Church. </strong></strong>We have a responsbility to pray for our persecuted brothers and sisters &#8212; and to share in their sufferings just as they share in the sufferings of Christ. I can think of no better time than Holy Week to pause and reflect on the price Christ paid for our sins. He was persecuted. He suffered. He was killed mercilessly on a cross that was meant for you and me. All this, and yet so many church-goers wouldn&#8217;t want Secret Church to get in the way of their weekend holiday plans.</p>
<p><strong>5. You will be emboldened by believers who risk everything because of their faith in Jesus Christ. </strong>Persecution of Christ-followers is real, and Christians in America need to realize that fact. So often we take for granted our ability to gather freely to worship and study God&#8217;s Word. This is a stark contrast from the reality of millions of believers around the globe. In fact, 100 million Christians live in areas where they face persecution on a regular basis. 400 million Christians live in places where there is threat of persecution. Though perceived as a long shot at present, the fact is that our country could one day become such a place.</p>
<p>Just think what God could do if only a handful of people at churches all across our nation got radically serious about their faith! Renewal? Revival? Restoration of the Church as &#8216;salt and light&#8217; to our culture and context? All that and more is possible, if we live out what we say we believe. I don&#8217;t know about you, but I&#8217;d <em>insist</em> on being a part of such a movement of God.</p>
<p>In <em>Radical Together</em>, Platt writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>True faith in Christ inevitably produces great work for Christ, not works fueled by the flesh in an attempt to earn our way to God, but works fueled by faith in a life that is abandoned to God. And all of it is by grace.</p></blockquote>
<p>Wherever you are &#8212; and whatever you have planned &#8212; I hope you will consider making the Secret Church Simulcast part of your Easter weekend. Who knows? It just might be a catalyst for helping us get more serious about living the abundant life Jesus wants us to have &#8212; and sharing His message and love with others.  <a href="http://batchgeo.com/map/1a4f4cc59ba5f277cb2ccf9721e6b5bc" target="_blank">Click here to find a simulcast location near you</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where has the time gone? My last post was in the throes of winter . . . a winter that brought central Arkansas five snow events in the space of four weeks! It truly seems that we just turned the page on a new calendar year, and yet here we are in mid-April. I&#8217;ve always [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3251&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;ve always been a real fan of fall. I love the colors and the transition from hot temperatures to cooler, more bearable weather. However, the older I get, the more I love springtime. Having grown up in the deep South, the return of spring was hailed by frolicking wildlife seemingly celebrating the end of the hunker-down season. I remember watching squirrels at play, almost overnight shedding their poofy winter coats for something a little more tailored. The red robins do a similar change of wardrobe that I&#8217;ve always found fascinating.</p>
<p>Having returned to the real South from Texas (which I dearly love) nearly two years ago, I&#8217;ve again fallen in love with the sights and sounds of spring. Just in the past few weeks, the hills of Arkansas have come alive with flowering trees and shrubs, beautifully brilliant daffodils and tulips (my wife&#8217;s favorite), and mysteriously majestic dogwood trees, all of which announce the end of winter. I absolutely love my backyard because of the dogwood that for a period of just a couple weeks transforms the landscape with its bright white blossoms.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3256" style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;border:0;" title="lilies-of-the-field-small" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/lilies-of-the-field-small.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Not everything is so cheery in life. If you&#8217;re anything like me, you&#8217;ve largely given up on finding any good news on TV. In fact, too much time with that can make me quite depressed. I&#8217;ve found though that while man is destined to disappoint, God is faithful to do just what He says He will do. Just as his eye is on the sparrow, we can be assured that He is watching over His children. My recent visit to Israel was filled with so many amazing sights. I think my personal favorites were the lilies of the field (seen at left). Jesus himself said that &#8220;even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.&#8221; (Matt. 6:29, ESV) As you can see, judging from this photo, who could argue that?</p>
<p>In a world filled with so much hurt, pain, sickness, calamity, brokenness, grief, and loss, it helps me to look around and again &#8220;taste and see that the Lord is good.&#8221; (Psalm 34:8, ESV). When you feel all alone and begin to  think all hope is lost, lift up your head and cast your eyes on the evidence of our Creator &#8212; and know that He cares for <em>you. </em>If you&#8217;re reading this and don&#8217;t know what it&#8217;s like to have peace in the midst of the storm, I encourage you to <a href="mailto:garrick.conner@gmail.com" target="_blank">contact me</a>, and let me help you <a href="http://garrickdconner.com/discover-new-life/">discover new life</a> today. Whatever you may be going through, God can give you just what you need to persevere.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What is your favorite thing about spring? How do you stay focused on good in a world full of evil?</p>
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		<title>The upside to swimming upstream</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2011 03:21:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garrick D. Conner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Throughout my life I&#8217;ve had to come to terms with the fact that I&#8217;m frequently just like a salmon swimming upstream. Here are just a few examples: I grew up in the deep South but couldn&#8217;t care less about hunting or fishing.    I&#8217;m only marginally interested in most major sports (although I enjoy the summer [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&#038;blog=2294139&#038;post=3195&#038;subd=expressionsandinsights&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-3206 alignright" style="border:0;margin:5px;" title="salmon-upstream" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/salmon-upstream.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Throughout my life I&#8217;ve had to come to terms with the fact that I&#8217;m frequently just like a salmon swimming upstream. Here are just a few examples:</p>
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<li>I grew up in the deep South but couldn&#8217;t care less about hunting or fishing.<br />
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<li>I&#8217;m only marginally interested in most major sports (although I enjoy the summer and winter olympics &#8212; and every two years seems to meet my need).<br />
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<li>I&#8217;m one of those who watches the glitz and glamour of professional sports and entertainment and silently wonders how much difference could be made if all that money were spent on sharing the gospel and meeting the needs of those less fortunate.<br />
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<li>I&#8217;m more verbal and more emotional than most guys (which totally messes up the application of all those books on marriage and relationships &#8212; you know, the ones whose authors manage to polarize the non-conformists by consistently stereotyping).<br />
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<li>I&#8217;m not a big movie person (mainly because I have a strong dislike for many of the big-name stars and the values they endorse). And I rarely watch R-rated movies, which definitely limits my options.<br />
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<li>I like to read &#8212; but only those things that are real-life and deemed relevant to my personal growth (i.e., the Bible, biographies, leadership books). No sci-fi for me, thank you very much.</li>
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<p>I could go on, but you probably get the picture. Some of those things are merely personal preferences; others involve the power of choice. As a kid growing up, I often believed what others said about me &#8212; basically that I was &#8216;weird,&#8217; &#8216;boring,&#8217; and &#8216;out-of-step.&#8217; However, in my years since high school I&#8217;ve come to appreciate the things that set me apart from the majority. I guess you could say that I&#8217;m more &#8216;comfortable in my own skin&#8217; than I&#8217;ve ever been.</p>
<p>During his earthly ministry, Jesus said that his followers should be in the world and not of it.  That doesn&#8217;t mean that there&#8217;s anything inherently wrong with any of the things I mentioned above, but it <em>does </em>mean that when the world looks at believers, they should see something different. Very different. And chances are pretty good that those differences may well find you misunderstood and even hated. Listen to these words of Christ:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember the words I spoke to you: &#8216;No servant is greater than his master.&#8217; If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also.&#8221; &#8211; John 15:18-20a, NIV</p></blockquote>
<p>Scripture is filled with examples of people who went against the current. I think of Noah, who <em>everyone </em>probably thought was a nut-case. He never had the opportunity to tell them, &#8216;I told you so,&#8217; because they had washed away by then. I think of Joseph, who in today&#8217;s culture would likely have encouraged Mary to abort her unborn baby &#8212; a decision that would today draw cheers and applause from irresponsible men all over the world. And I think of Stephen who boldly stood his ground and stuck to his beliefs even though it would cost him his life.</p>
<p>Salmon swim upstream in the ocean waters, sometimes hundreds of miles, to return to the rivers or streams where they were born. They go with a definite purpose &#8212; to spawn. As believers we must remember that swimming upstream in this world requires us to stay focused on our purpose &#8212; to be salt and light in the world, sharing the Good News, and spiritually reproducing by making new disciples of Christ.</p>
<p>As you go through your week, I encourage you to take time to evaluate your life. Are you running with the crowd and blending right in, or are you swimming against the current of this world and seeking to point others in the right direction?</p>
<p>It has long been said that ministry and leadership can be very lonely, but I&#8217;d rather be lonely and with God than loved by the world and living without Him.</p>
<p>Yes, there is a definite upside to swimming upstream:</p>
<blockquote><p> &#8221;Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.&#8221; &#8211; Matt. 7:13-14, NIV</p></blockquote>
<p>Whenever you feel truly alone, take a look around and you&#8217;ll find others like you. And there is strength in numbers.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3208" style="border:0;margin:3px 5px;" title="salmon-bears" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/salmon-bears.jpg?w=300&h=215" alt="" width="300" height="215" /></a>Just watch out for the bears.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>If you swim upstream in this life, in what ways do you find yourself feeling lonely, isolated, or misunderstood? How does swimming upstream impact your relationship with God? With others?</p>
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