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		<description><![CDATA[A new year is a great time to evaluate life . . . to reflect on successes, failures, hurts, disappointments, losses &#8212; and to look forward to the promise of new beginnings. Even though we are free to &#8216;start fresh&#8217; anytime, there&#8217;s something psychologically powerful about turning the calendar page to a brand new year. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3821&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3833" style="border:0 none;margin-left:2px;margin-right:2px;" title="happy-new-year-2012" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/happy-new-year-2012.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>A new year is a great time to evaluate life . . . to reflect on successes, failures, hurts, disappointments, losses &#8212; and to look forward to the promise of new beginnings. Even though we are free to &#8216;start fresh&#8217; anytime, there&#8217;s something psychologically powerful about turning the calendar page to a brand new year.</p>
<p>Of course, there are many who will make resolutions to improve themselves in some way during 2012. Surveys have indicated that most resolutions don&#8217;t make it past the month of January. Today I offer you ten secrets to guaranteed success:</p>
<p><strong>1. Don&#8217;t personalize your goals. </strong>Simply read one of those New Year&#8217;s articles in Sunday&#8217;s paper and use that as your goal-making guide. Better yet, just ask your friends what their goals are and resolve to do the same. Just think of all the time you&#8217;ll save.</p>
<p><strong>2. Don&#8217;t write down your goals. </strong>Not on paper. Not on your computer. Not on your bathroom mirror. Nowhere at all! Before a week has come and gone, you&#8217;ll have forgotten any of these silly little dreams and can get back to being the same ol&#8217; you that you&#8217;ve always been.</p>
<p><strong>3. Don&#8217;t be realistic in your thinking. </strong>Shoot for the stars! Don&#8217;t settle for  just a little self-improvement. Go all out and aim for a total life transformation.</p>
<p><strong>4. Don&#8217;t pace yourself. </strong>Accept no waiting! Do you really want that perfect body in 30 days? Then flip on the TV and order the latest, greatest gadget from one of those overnight infomercials. They <em>really </em>work. Plus, you almost always get a free gift or two if you &#8216;order now.&#8217;</p>
<p><strong>5. Don&#8217;t believe in yourself. </strong>Adopt a &#8216;No I Can&#8217;t&#8217; mentality.This is a well-kept secret of some of the most successful people in the world. For example, if you really want to drop some pounds, just say &#8216;no&#8217; to every temptation that comes your way. Not one Hershey&#8217;s kiss. Not one potato chip. Not one carrot dipped in extra Ranch dressing. Ever!</p>
<p><strong>6. Don&#8217;t set a deadline. </strong>By keeping your options completely open, you can be your own judge of progress made toward your goals. In six months&#8217; time when you haven&#8217;t really seen any change at all, you can honestly say you haven&#8217;t failed but are just waiting to identify the perfect moment to break out of your rut.</p>
<p><strong>7. Don&#8217;t tell anyone about your goals. </strong>Not. One. Soul. Once people know your business, they tend to lord it over you acting as your moral and spiritual compass. They&#8217;ll ask how you&#8217;re doing . . . remind you of your target . . . encourage you &#8212; and maybe even pray for your success. You certainly wouldn&#8217;t want anyone interfering like that.</p>
<p><strong>8. Don&#8217;t do anything too hard.</strong> Simple is often better. Keep breathing. Keep eating. Keep sleeping. Basically don&#8217;t attempt to do anything a cat wouldn&#8217;t. Success is sure to be yours.</p>
<p><strong>9. Don&#8217;t evaluate your progress or adjust your goals. </strong>Of course, if you follow #2 carefully, then this one will be a real piece of cake.</p>
<p><strong>10. Don&#8217;t ask for God&#8217;s help. </strong>There&#8217;s what . . . seven <em>billion</em> people on this rotating rock called Earth? Surely He wouldn&#8217;t be interested in <em>you</em>. Do everything in your own power, and just think of the boasting you can do at the end of the year.</p>
<p>OK, so maybe you&#8217;ve picked up on a bit of sarcasm in this post. Someone once said that they weren&#8217;t making resolutions for the new year because last year&#8217;s resolutions were as good as new. Don&#8217;t let that be your testimony. I encourage you to take some time to identify just a few areas in which you&#8217;d like to see some improvement. Even if you haven&#8217;t fully specified your goals as of January 1, a few extra days of sincere and thoughtful planning will likely pay big dividends in the long run.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re serious about making some changes in this new year, then I wish you all the best. Aim for S.M.A.R.T goals: Specific, Measurable, Action-Oriented, Realistic, and Time-Sensitive. Remember that moderation is preferable, and accountability is almost always essential.</p>
<p>In closing, consider these powerful and familiar words from the Apostle Paul:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.&#8221; &#8211; Philippians 3:12-14, ESV</p></blockquote>
<p>May God richly bless you and your family in this new year of life.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are some things you wish to improve upon in this new year? What are the biggest challenges to reaching your goals?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, most of you probably know by now that I&#8217;m a real night owl. Some of the most productive moments in my day occur between 11:00 p.m. and 2:00 a.m. I say that just to acknowledge the fact that, yes, I should be heading to bed as of this writing, but I just have to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3607&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-3614 alignright" style="border:0 none;margin-top:3px;margin-bottom:3px;" title="Sky-lanterns" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/sky-lanterns.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>OK, most of you probably know by now that I&#8217;m a real night owl. Some of the most productive moments in my day occur between 11:00 p.m. and 2:00 a.m. I say that just to acknowledge the fact that, yes, I <em>should </em>be heading to bed as of this writing, but I just have to share something with you.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t you just love it when God speaks to you through the most seemingly insignificant and every-day, run-of-the-mill stuff of life? I do &#8212; regardless of whether it&#8217;s a message I really want to hear. Something about those revelations just speaks to my heart as if to say, &#8220;Garrick, you belong to Me, and I care enough about you that I don&#8217;t want you to miss this!&#8221; The God of the universe in just a matter of a few seconds delivers a generous helping of knowledge that one can&#8217;t help but be a bit blown away.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but there are certain tasks around the house that I enjoy more than others. If I&#8217;m completely honest, I tend to let a lot of little things slide &#8212; especially when I&#8217;m consumed by the details of major projects at the church. One of the tasks I find myself ignoring is that of replacing light bulbs. For some reason our cars and our house love to eat light bulbs. Whether it&#8217;s tail lights, headlights, incandescent lights or fluorescent ones, we get plenty of opportunities to change bulbs in this household.</p>
<p>Well, one day last week I came in to find that not only was one of the long fluorescent bulbs out, it was also broken. This happened to be a fixture that I quite honestly know very little about. Michelle and I looked at it for a while but couldn&#8217;t figure it out. Not all that consciously, I kind of put that little project on hold &#8212; you know, waiting for just the right time when the moon and stars align and the family and work calendars are completely in sync. Like that ever happens. As a result of that decision &#8212; a.k.a., bad choice &#8212; we had to leave the kitchen light off all weekend. It wasn&#8217;t too big of a deal. We just used the light over the eating area as our sole source of light. I guess you could say that there was ambient lighting in the actual kitchen, but I&#8217;m not sure a Vent-A-Hood light and that wimpy little light on the fridge qualify for mood lighting.</p>
<p>Fast forward to Tuesday. I came in from the office, knowing I&#8217;d have just enough time to watch a little news and enjoy dinner with the family before heading out to puppy training class with Maggie. When I entered from the garage and stepped into the house, I was nearly blinded by the light in the kitchen. It seems that while I was slaving away at the office, the &#8216;light bulb fairy&#8217; paid a visit. She apparently found a do-it-yourself video on YouTube to guide her through the process of fixing the broken light and installing the new bulbs.</p>
<p>Now you know how it is when you replace a bulb. It always seems brighter because you get used to it being a little more dim. But when I came in on Tuesday afternoon, the kitchen was lit up like the sun at high noon! I told Michelle that our kitchen now has better lighting than the operating room during my last surgery. You see, not only had we become used to the lesser light from the broken bulb, but we had also failed to notice that another part of the light was burned out.</p>
<p>As I thought about this today, I just kept feeling God say to me, &#8220;This is how your life is when you leave Me out . . . when you put Me on hold. You just get so accustomed to the dimly-lit room that you fail to notice the crumbs, the stains, the debris from the chaos of your busy life.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never really felt convicted by a light fixture before &#8212; and I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s not exactly the source of my conviction now. But God used this little every-day matter to grab my attention. Several life applications come to mind. Failure to take immediate action when we realize there&#8217;s a disconnect between us and God can have profound consequences:<span id="more-3607"></span></p>
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<li><strong>We risk minimizing rather than resolving the problem.</strong> This is a trap that comes in the form of rationalizing the problem or pretending that it will just magically take care of itself with no energy or effort from us required. The truth is that in time our kitchen was only going to get darker, making everything more difficult.</li>
<li><strong>We risk adapting to rather than responding to the situation.</strong> Such passive adaptation can be purely the result of indifference. However, left unchecked, it can prove dangerous and costly. Things could easily go from misreading a spice bottle to severely cutting a hand.</li>
<li><strong>We risk settling for less rather than expecting His best. </strong>So many of the ways God blesses us are directly related to the way we prepare our hearts. In the case of a poorly lit kitchen, it wouldn&#8217;t take long to experience a really bad-tasting dish, all because we misread the recipe.</li>
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<p>Genesis 1:3 says, &#8220;And God said, &#8216;Let there be light,&#8217; and there was light.&#8221; (ESV) God wants us to have light both physically and spiritually.</p>
<p>Whatever is causing poor visibility in your spiritual life, let this be a reminder to do whatever it takes to get back on track <em>now </em>so you won&#8217;t have to pay a much higher price <em>later</em>. God has given us the Word to illumine our path &#8212; and has put the light of Christ in our hearts. May we never ever get comfortable living in darkness when He has called us to shine with His marvelous light.</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t seen it yet, here&#8217;s Brandon Heath&#8217;s very cool video of his song, &#8220;The Light In Me.&#8221;</p>
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IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What is God teaching you lately through the ordinary things of life?</p>
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<p>While the mainstream media toggles between fostering hope and invoking gloom, the number of individuals and families impacted by this crippled economy continues to climb. Of course, the 9.1% unemployment rate is disheartening . . . but when you factor in those who are long-term unemployed (they&#8217;re not actually counted in the numbers from the Labor Department, you know) and the under-employed, the number is staggering indeed. In recent months I have noticed an increase in the average age of the servers who wait on me in restaurants and the employees who work in retail stores. So many people are now doing work for which they are grossly over-qualified because they simply cannot find a more lucrative employment option.</p>
<p>While the partisans in Washington and the talking heads on cable TV duke it out about where to place blame for the current situation, the cause, I believe, is more foundational than systemic. Back in 2008 when the stock market tanked and the era of the bail-outs was born, there was a lot of talk about certain corporations being &#8216;too big to fail.&#8217; The reality is that nothing in this world is too big to fail.</p>
<p>The major problem with the US economy lies not with the chronically, hopelessly inept politicians but with the pride of our citizens. In times of relative peace and prosperity, Americans began to believe they were exceptional &#8212; by definition, meaning the exception to most rules of conventional wisdom. It seems to me that many confused the concepts of <em>exception </em>and <em>exemption</em>. Since the 80&#8242;s and 90&#8242;s were characterized by economic growth and upward mobility, Americans began to believe they were exempt from the kind of reason, morality, and common sense that were at the very foundation of our nation&#8217;s vibrancy.</p>
<p>Now, years later, we have begun to realize that the principle of planting and harvesting is true for us too: You reap what you sow.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-3488 alignleft" style="border:0 none;margin-left:3px;margin-right:3px;" title="store-closing" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/store-closing.jpg?w=150&#038;h=111" alt="" width="150" height="111" /></a>Signs of the times are all around us. From the empty storefronts to the foreclosed homes to the jam-packed job fairs, America has been radically transformed into a nation in desperate need. And I&#8217;m not just talking about need of jobs either. I&#8217;m speaking of the need for spiritual renewal. Of course, in a country where 700 Christians can&#8217;t prevent a mosque from being built at Ground Zero &#8212; but one atheist can keep a cross from being displayed on a soldier&#8217;s tombstone &#8212; we are a perfect picture of a nation run amuck. Through moral relativism, religious plurality, and self-determinism, America has become a spiritually anemic society.</p>
<p>Please don&#8217;t mishear me. I&#8217;m not trying to say that this is the end of America as we know it; there are plenty of other people out there delivering that sobering prediction. Perhaps our greatest days are ahead of us . . . but not unless we recognize and repair the colossal cracks in our foundation. And such hope for a brighter future is entirely dependent upon returning to God.</p>
<p>This Labor Day, if you are blessed enough to have a job, thank God for it. If you are one of the millions of Americans who is unemployed or under-employed, know that God is real, and He cares for you. In times like these we learn painfully difficult but necessary lessons. My prayer is that the challenges of this present time will not defeat us but humble us &#8212; and ultimately make us stronger.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t ever believe that America is too big to fail. We must remain hopeful, vigilant, and faithful to the One from whom all blessings flow. In the words of John Adams, <q cite="http://quotationsbook.com/quote/10433/">Remember, democracy never lasts long. It soon wastes, exhausts, and murders itself. There never was a democracy yet that did not commit suicide.</q></p>
<p>As you celebrate a holiday weekend with family and friends, let&#8217;s not forget those who labor for our freedom. Our military men and women and their families deserve our prayers, our respect, and our gratitude.</p>
<p><em>(</em><a href="http://garrickdconner.com/2009/09/04/a-labor-day-letter-to-the-church/" target="_blank"><em>Click here for a previous post that offers tips for helping those who are unemployed</em></a><em>.)</em></p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What do you think about our country&#8217;s current situation? What will it take for our nation to return to God?</p>
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		<title>5 ways to pray for the Middle East</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unless you&#8217;ve been comatose, stoned, or hiding under a rock, you&#8217;ve no doubt seen and heard about the civil unrest going on in Egypt. So many people I&#8217;ve talked with seem to have a nonchalant attitude regarding these late-breaking and ever-changing events. I want to encourage you to be in prayer for this tense situation, and for all [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3121&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Unless you&#8217;ve been comatose, stoned, or hiding under a rock, you&#8217;ve no doubt seen and heard about the civil unrest going on in Egypt. So many people I&#8217;ve talked with seem to have a nonchalant attitude regarding these late-breaking and ever-changing events.</p>
<p>I want to encourage you to be in prayer for this tense situation, and for all the people involved. Already more than one hundred individuals have died and at least 2000 have been injured in violent protests. In a nation crying out for more freedom, you can imagine what the government&#8217;s decision to block or interrupt internet connections and cell phone service has done to further incite a violent response from these people. Then there&#8217;s that little issue of the 4:00 p.m. nationwide curfew.</p>
<p>I was only eight years old when former Egyptian president <a class="zem_slink" title="Anwar El Sadat" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anwar_El_Sadat">Anwar Sadat</a> was assassinated in October, 1981. Even as a child I had an insatiable curiosity, particularly as related to news, politics, and current events. Therefore, it&#8217;s probably not surprising to learn that I actually remember watching the special news coverage of the late president&#8217;s funeral. At that time the world seemed a lot bigger than it does today. With 24-hour streaming news and information, the internet has served to bring the world together in ways not terribly unlike the failed Tower of Babel.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Now the whole world had common language and common speech.&#8221; &#8211; Genesis 11:1</p></blockquote>
<p>As a third grader, I had no idea how much deeper I&#8217;d come to understand the implications of Sadat&#8217;s assassination as it relates to the hope for peace in the <a class="zem_slink" title="Middle East" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_East">Middle East</a>. Now raising a fourth grader, I shudder to think what things my own children might come to understand &#8212; and experience &#8212; in this life.</p>
<p>The situation in the Middle East is always volatile, always dynamic, and always fodder for newspeople, politicians, pastors, and historians. As I prepare to embark on a study tour to Israel in the coming weeks, the intensity of the violence and political-civil unrest in Israel&#8217;s next-door neighbor to the southwest are particularly sobering and concerning. Still, as one who trusts in God, I realize that nothing in this world is a surprise to Him. He is working out His ultimate purpose just as is promised through the prophetic texts of Scripture. And something about that gives me a deep-seated peace that passes understanding. </p>
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<p style="text-align:left;">Today I want to encourage you to take time and pray sincerely for Egypt and the world. Here are five specific things for which you can pray regarding the current situation:</p>
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<li><strong>Pray for the safety of the Egyptian people.</strong> These people are not terribly unlike you and me. They have a deep desire for change and a strong drive to experience greater freedom than has been the case over the last three decades.<br />
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<li><strong>Pray for the tourists, American and otherwise, who are caught in this period of unrest. </strong>I can only imagine how frightening things must seem &#8212; especially when travel and contact with the outside world is limited.<br />
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<li><strong>Pray for the missionaries who are serving in the region.</strong> In recent years, various Christian missionary organizations have reported a huge movement of God&#8217;s Spirit in the hearts and lives of Muslims in these nations. Pray that the present chaos will serve to move many toward faith in Christ. Pray also for the safety and well-being of those brave missionaries who serve faithfully on the front lines of what is as much a spiritual battle as a physical one. (Some of you may be unaware of the vast influence of Christians in Egypt through the years. <a href="http://www.imb.org/main/news/details.asp?StoryID=9206&amp;LanguageID=1709" target="_blank">Here&#8217;s a great summary</a>.)<br />
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<li><strong>Pray for world leaders to have wisdom in their response to the current situation</strong>. Pray that they will demonstrate great wisdom in both their words and their actions, knowing that in such volatile situations there is little room for misunderstanding.<br />
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<li><strong>Pray for the nation of Israel.</strong> The disturbing reality is that Egypt is Israel&#8217;s sole friend in the Middle East. Every other surrounding country is at best unhelpful to Israel &#8212; and at worst, openly disdainful. No other nation has demonstrated more utter contempt for Israel in recent years than Iran, and the Iranian leaders are salivating at the possibility of having Egypt fall into the hands of militant Islamists who will not interfere with the malevolent plans Iranian president <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ahmadinejad">Mahmoud Ahmadinejad</a> has for the nation of Israel. Regardless of differing political philosophies, Egypt has long been an essential ally of both Israel and the United States. The dissolution of that relationship would have significant negative implications for not only the Middle East but also for the entire free world.</li>
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<p>As believers, the very least we can do is pray. For the majority of us, it&#8217;s also the most we can do. Let us be faithful to do just that. Our burden for the Middle East needs to be about far more than oil and trade; we must remember the lives at stake &#8212; and that God loves each one of them, just as much as He loves you and me.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ifcj.org/site/PageNavigator/sfi_home?s_src=pmd_extsearch%20&amp;s_subsrc=ESG0900IXEXXX&amp;cid=PSG2011" target="_blank">Click here for more information about how you can Stand for Israel</a>.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are your thoughts about the current events in the Middle East?<br />
How do you find yourself praying in times like these?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, this is my first post of 2011. My blog has taken a backseat to some other things that are more important to me at the present time. Last time you heard from me, I offered some help for making and keeping new year&#8217;s resolutions. A recent survey found that most resolutions get broken in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=2942&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2945" style="border:0;" title="update1" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/01/update1.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Well, this is my first post of 2011. My blog has taken a backseat to some other things that are more important to me at the present time. Last time you heard from me, I offered some help for making and keeping new year&#8217;s resolutions. A recent survey found that most resolutions get broken in the first two weeks &#8212; and people rarely re-focus. Instead they give up. That&#8217;s why I wanted to wait a full three weeks before I offered a follow-up.</p>
<p>I have deemed 2011 the &#8216;Year of Intentionality&#8217; for me. I&#8217;m going to be much more efficient in my use of time . . . much more focused on the things that matter most &#8212; like personal health and relationships . . . and much more disciplined in reviewing my progress at pre-determined intervals.</p>
<p>As I suggested in my last post, I limited myself to five specific resolutions:</p>
<p><strong>1. I will improve my spiritual life by memorizing two Bible verses per month and spending at least 30 minutes per day in prayer and Bible study (above and beyond my preparation for teaching/leading in my ministry position), and read through the entire Bible this year.</strong></p>
<p>PROGRESS TO DATE: I have identified 24 different Bible verses or passages to memorize &#8212; and have memorized four new verses to day, utilizing this neat <a href="http://www.scripturetyper.com" target="_blank">online program</a> to help me. I am using <a href="http://www.youversion.com" target="_blank">YouVersion</a> to read through my Bible &#8211; and I&#8217;ve stayed on track. I&#8217;ve also seen an increase in the quality of my personal time with God, which has been most refreshing. Now don&#8217;t get me wrong. I&#8217;ve always tried to make sure and spend time with God; I&#8217;m just being more intentional about it this year.</p>
<p><strong>2. I will lose 20 pounds by working out four times per week, cutting out soft drinks and high-fat (especially most fried) foods, drinking at least eight glasses of water per day, and eating nothing after 8:00 p.m.</strong></p>
<p>PROGRESS TO DATE: I scheduled regular workouts for the entire year and have kept my commitment to healthy eating. As a result, I have lost nearly nine pounds since January 1 (which means I&#8217;m nearly half-way to my goal!).</p>
<p><strong>3. I will increase the quality of our home/family life by having lunch with my kids at school one time per month and playing a game with the kids at least one evening per week.</strong></p>
<p>PROGRESS TO DATE: I scheduled regular appointments with my kiddos. Unfortunately, our recent winter weather threw a kink in those plans, so I haven&#8217;t yet been able to have lunch with them at school. I have played games with them &#8212; and even won one or two of them!</p>
<p><strong>4. I will pay more attention to my relationship with my wife. </strong>I outlined several action steps, which I won&#8217;t detail here.</p>
<p>PROGRESS TO DATE: <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>5. I will save money by eating more meals at home and putting aside additional money for savings and for mission/charity giving.</strong></p>
<p>PROGRESS TO DATE: The meals at home have actually helped <em>a lot </em>with Goal #2. It&#8217;s amazing how much easier it is to control the type and amount of food just by removing some of the temptations (like restaurant menus &#8212; with photos).</p>
<p>I&#8217;m looking at these five things as &#8216;vital signs&#8217; for me in this new year. These are the things that make or break the quality of my life. I really struggled with some health issues toward the end of last year. In spite of the fact that I&#8217;ve already experienced one kidney stone this year, I&#8217;m convinced that I&#8217;m going to see a pay-off in the long run. The choices we make today will impact the kind of body we&#8217;ll have 20 years down the road.<span id="more-2942"></span></p>
<p>You know, life really is all about choices. I believe that good things happen when we make good choices one choice at a time. Now I will admit that some of those choices have been difficult ones . . . like buying the mixed box of doughnuts from Shipley today, smelling them in the car on my way to my team meeting, and watching the staff enjoy them before my very eyes. I enjoyed my bowl of whole-grain Cherios &#8212; and silently cussed the devil for putting two chocolate-filled doughnuts in that box. Those are my absolute FAVORITE! And they&#8217;ve NEVER put them in a mixed box for me before!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be honest with you. During the past year, my life became a bit unbalanced. I didn&#8217;t manage my time as well as I should have. I allowed the poor planning of other people to be my problem. And I at times treated perfect strangers better than my own family. I&#8217;m committed to making the choices necessary to become a more balanced and more effective individual, and I believe that commitment is worth keeping.</p>
<p>I know that you might not think resolutions are a worthwhile investment of your time and energy, but I&#8217;ve never found myself worse off for resolving to be better. It&#8217;s still early in the year . . . and thank God, we can have a fresh start any day of our choosing because His mercies are new each morning. Don&#8217;t let 2011 kick you around and beat you up. Take charge of your schedule. Set an example of love for your family. Learn to say &#8216;no&#8217; to the things that aren&#8217;t essential or beneficial. I led a study at my last church called &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Busyness-Biblical-Overloaded-People/dp/1415825815/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1295578312&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">Freedom from Busyness</a>.&#8221; The author, <a href="http://www.epiphanyresources.com/9to5/zigarelli.htm" target="_blank">Michael Zigarelli</a>, reminded me that for every &#8216;yes&#8217; Jesus gave to the many requests during his earthly ministry, there were inevitably more times when he said &#8216;no.&#8217; I realize that saying &#8216;no&#8217; is sometimes uncomfortable. Some people might not approve &#8212; and that&#8217;s just a risk I have to take. I&#8217;m learning the truth of the adage: &#8220;The people who matter don&#8217;t mind, and the people who mind don&#8217;t matter.&#8221;</p>
<p>Oh, how I wish I&#8217;d learned that a long time ago.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>How is your new year going? Have you made any positive changes in your life? What are your &#8216;vital signs&#8217;?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on our many blessings. As a Christian, it is easy for me to find blessings everywhere around me. Despite the challenges of this year, God has blessed me far beyond what I deserve. Unfortunately, these are tough times for many people &#8212; and for the world as a whole. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=2843&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2847" style="margin-left:4px;margin-right:4px;border:0;" title="give-thanks" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/give-thanks.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on our many blessings. As a Christian, it is easy for me to find blessings everywhere around me. Despite the challenges of this year, God has blessed me far beyond what I deserve.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, these are tough times for many people &#8212; and for the world as a whole. In fact, many in the world have been hurting and in need for generations. Only in recent years has our country joined the list of those nations experiencing increased poverty, increased crime, and increased fear. The number of Americans turning to antidepressants bears witness to the physical and mental toll of stress. The number of suicides in our country is rising, and the suicide rate among our military men and women now exceeds the national average.</p>
<p>The statistics are sobering. The prognosis is grim. However, we know that trouble is no stranger to this world. In writing to the church at Thessalonica, the apostle Paul instructed:</p>
<blockquote><p>Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God&#8217;s will for you in Christ Jesus. (1 Thess. 5:16-18)</p></blockquote>
<p>Let&#8217;s be honest for a minute or two. Most of us struggle with this notion of being joyful always. Western society is so focused on happiness, which is invariably dependent upon our circumstances at the moment. We understand with our heads this thing called joy, but we fail at many points to somehow separate our situation from our status as Christians, often falling prey to the prevalent message of the prosperity gospel that tells us God blesses us <em>because </em>we do good. I&#8217;ve been unable to locate the basis for that message anywhere in the pages of Scripture; perhaps that&#8217;s because it doesn&#8217;t come from there at all.<span id="more-2843"></span></p>
<p>As Christians, none of us are exempt from the problems of this life. Just think about the many troubles that plague us:</p>
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<li>Unemployment</li>
<li>Health issues</li>
<li>Crime</li>
<li>Family conflict</li>
<li>Financial stress</li>
<li>Moral ruin</li>
<li>Wars</li>
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<p>The list goes on and on and on. Whether you realize it or not, this collection of issues poses a very real threat to life as we know it. While the news media tries its best to put a positive spin on the world situation (particularly the US economy), the facts just continue to mount up, pointing to the grim reality that the &#8216;new normal&#8217; will require us to live with less. And less, I believe, is not in and of itself a bad thing; that is, so long as our faith is not in the stuff of this life.</p>
<p>I contend that the majority of people in our nation, Christians included, have become so enamored &#8212; if not consumed &#8211; with the trappings of this world that we just can&#8217;t imagine having to surrender some of the things we enjoy most: our smart phones, our designer coffees, our big houses, our fancy cars, etc. The truth is that for many of us, we probably won&#8217;t have to surrender them; they&#8217;ll just become irrelevant to us as our need for the essentials in life becomes greater. Ultimately, we&#8217;re all going to have less trouble distinguishing between our wants and our needs.</p>
<p>As I ponder our world situation, with its perpetual drumbeat focused on globalism, I&#8217;m reminded that God is bringing everything under His purpose and plan. He does not forget His people. He is not surprised by the corruption of man. He is not perplexed and in a quandry as to how to make things better. Quite the contrary! He provided a plan for us many years ago, a plan that would result in the sacrifice of His only begotten son, Jesus Christ. And God is not the least bit concerned with making things better for us &#8212; at least not as we so often think of &#8216;better,&#8217; in terms of wealth and material possessions.</p>
<p>The imminent collapse of the US economy will present a myriad of challenges for us all, the likes of which have not been experienced since the Great Depression. I believe the impact will be much greater though, because the gap between our debt-driven standard of living and our eventual fall will be absolutely unparalleled. The difficult days ahead may indeed find those who profess Christ persecuted as well. These days will serve as a fire through which the hearts of true believers are refined and their loyalties laid bare for all to see. We can expect to more closely relate to those who have sacrificed the stuff of this world in order to share the message of salvation with people whose standard of living actually allowed for an openness to the Gospel. In the end, it will be the missionaries who may experience less distress from the fall-out of the global economy because they never became hooked on the insatiable cravings for more that so characterize the American way of life.</p>
<p>Of course, this post is really supposed to be about Thanksgiving. When Thursday comes, we&#8217;ll have all witnessed the President pardoning the turkey. We&#8217;ll have scouted out the best places to get deals on the latest greatest foreign-made gadgets. And we&#8217;ll have stuffed our bellies with a feast fit for a king. Let&#8217;s enjoy it &#8212; and give thanks to the One from whom all blessings flow. Just do so mindful of the fact that you might not realize just how grateful you really are until that bounty of blessings begins to disappear.</p>
<p>Perhaps we should practice now what we should have practiced all along &#8212; a steady dose of thanksgiving for all the things that really do matter most: our family, our friends, our health, our freedom, and most of all, our salvation through Jesus Christ. These are the intangibles of life, the blessings that demand our gratitude.</p>
<p>As you gather together with friends and family this Thanksgiving, I encourage you to take the time to offer heartfelt thanks to God for the blessings you enjoy. Prayerfully remember those who are hungry, homeless, and hurting in a multitude of ways. Consider the ones who are serving their country far from those they love, and pray for the missionaries who are working tirelessly to share the message of salvation to a world very much in need.</p>
<p>I am more grateful this year than I&#8217;ve ever been. And that is as it should be every year, no matter what.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are you most thankful for this year? How do you distinguish between happiness and joy?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Worry. It&#8217;s a five-letter word that feels more like four. Even though we know it&#8217;s not good for us &#8212; and, in fact, Jesus Himself taught us not to do it. But the fact remains that for many people, worry occupies a significant amount of time and energy, effectively sapping them of resources to do more [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=2223&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2227" style="border:0;" title="WorriedMan" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/worriedman.jpg?w=200&#038;h=300" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>Worry. It&#8217;s a five-letter word that feels more like four. Even though we <em>know </em>it&#8217;s not good for us &#8212; and, in fact, Jesus Himself taught us not to do it. But the fact remains that for many people, worry occupies a significant amount of time and energy, effectively sapping them of resources to do more productive activities.</p>
<p>Men do it. Women do it. Children do it.</p>
<p>Even in the presence of good company, worry can leave you feeling restless and alone.</p>
<p>It has been said many times that most of the things we worry about never happen. And that may be true. But those of us who struggle with worry somehow feel a sick sense of control over those things that often top our &#8216;worry&#8217; lists. Things like health, finances, relationships, death, war, intergallactic collisions. See? It&#8217;s just the little things that keep us up nights.</p>
<p>In His teaching on worry, Jesus said this:<span id="more-2223"></span></p>
<blockquote><p>This is why I tell you: Don&#8217;t worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Isn&#8217;t life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the sky: they don&#8217;t sow or reap or gather into barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren&#8217;t you worth more than they? &#8211; <em>Matthew 6:25-26 (HCSB)</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Paul, in writing to the church at Philippi, said:</p>
<blockquote><p>Don&#8217;t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses every thought, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. &#8211; <em>Philippians 4:6-7 (HCSB)</em></p></blockquote>
<p>That wonderfully devoted missionary, Corrie Ten Boom, not only influenced the lives of those with whom she shared Christ personally, but even in her death, her words come alongside believers today, reminding us of the importance of simplicity in the Christian life. Her common-sense approach to worry puts it in an everyday framework: &#8220;Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength.&#8221;</p>
<p>Whatever it is that concerns you most today, lay it down at the feet of Jesus. Place it in the hands of the One who already knows the anxious state of your heart and feels compassion for the burdens you bear. Spend some time thanking God today for His loving care. And whatever you do, don&#8217;t let the worries of your tomorrow ruin the quality of your today.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 05:17:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a Canadian newspaper recently pointed out, the Fourth of July festivities and celebrations throughout the United States served as a bit of escape from some grim realities: a rapidly spiraling debt problem, an inept political machine, an unpopular war, and a persistent economic recession &#8212; just to name a few. And while I personally [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=2159&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2169" style="border:0;" title="america-water" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/america-water.jpg?w=300&#038;h=200" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>As a Canadian newspaper <a href="http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/opinions/happy-fourth-of-july-america-needs-it/article1626767/" target="_blank">recently pointed out</a>, the Fourth of July festivities and celebrations throughout the United States served as a bit of escape from some grim realities: a rapidly spiraling debt problem, an inept political machine, an unpopular war, and a persistent economic recession &#8212; just to name a few.</p>
<p>And while I personally enjoyed the distraction, I must admit that it will take more than fireworks and franks to get my mind off these colossal issues that threaten to choke the very life from our republic should a sharp and effective course correction not be made &#8212; and soon.</p>
<p>If you read this blog often, then you know that I am a huge advocate for personal responsibility. In contrast to the philosophies opined in the news media, pointing fingers and assigning blame is truly of little help. That&#8217;s where the church comes in.</p>
<p>You see, I believe that Christians have a responsibility to do something phenomenal in today&#8217;s American society &#8212; something that could radically transform the face of the Church as we know it. And yes, I understand that few facets of our economy have been so hard-hit financially as churches and non-profit organizations. When the budget gets squeezed at home, those expenses are among the first deemed &#8216;discretionary&#8217; &#8212; like it or not. Just yesterday I was contacted by yet another ministry colleague whose staff position will be eliminated at the end of the year.</p>
<p>As a realist and a pragmatist, I struggle with optimism. I&#8217;m a pretty black-and-white kind of guy. I&#8217;m fine with calling a spade a spade, although I probably won&#8217;t waste my time trying to convince those who don&#8217;t necessarily see things my way. But here&#8217;s what I think: I believe that the church in 21st century America has the potential to transform society in ways not seen since the days of the early church, as described in the book of Acts.</p>
<p>As states follow the nation&#8217;s lead and assume higher and higher levels of debt, vital services will be significantly reduced, if not eliminated altogether. These services include healthcare, counseling, education, and childcare. And there are ways for the Church to step up to the plate and assume responsibility for filling in the gaps that, quite frankly, it should have been doing all along.</p>
<p>Somewhere along the way, the American Church began to take on the attitude of its typical parishioners. The Church began to believe that its effectiveness was largely dependent upon some of the most superficial things &#8212; like state-of-the-art facilities, larger-than-life personalities, highly specialized niche ministries, and entertainment-based programming.</p>
<p>In fact, I would argue that this is still the model of the local church that many so-called pastors, priests, or shepherds would esteem as the pinnacle of success.</p>
<p>They would be wrong. Dead wrong.<span id="more-2159"></span></p>
<p>As American religious life evolved, many of the seeker-sensitive churches of the 80&#8242;s and 90&#8242;s made a very subtle, in fact, almost indiscernible transition. They moved from seeker-sensitive to consumer-driven. I suppose that once these churches reached &#8216;seekers,&#8217; then those individuals continued to expect church to be all about them instead of all about Him. Consequently, the landscape of this great nation is now littered with hundreds, perhaps thousands, of churches that don&#8217;t know what to do or how to cope when the money goes away and the lights go out.</p>
<p>I have an idea. I think that it&#8217;s then that the Church should best be positioned to tell the world, in effect, &#8220;It&#8217;s showtime!&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to show the world that this Gospel we preach is real, is relevant, and is right here. It&#8217;s time to show the world that the message we carry is not hindered by a weakened economy &#8212; not if we&#8217;re really passionate about the message in the first place. It&#8217;s time to prove once and for all that if a few ordinary fishermen with no formal training and no budgetary funds can reach people for Christ, then so can we!</p>
<p>Will things improve in America? Well, I guess that all depends on how we define improvement. Do I think the economy is going to take off again and let us enjoy the perks and privileges of being a nation of plenty? No, I emphatically do not believe that. We have essentially kicked God out of our schools, our courts, and our public gatherings in order to satisfy the outcries of a few literally misguided souls. Consequently, I think that God is working out His purposes, and our comfort level is of no concern to Him whatsoever.</p>
<p>However, I do believe that the Church is going to see drastic improvement. I think that improvement will center around four major shifts in the life of our local churches, some of which are transitioning even now:</p>
<p><strong>1. Ministry as we know it will look and feel very different than it does in many of our churches today.</strong> We will be forced to view our budget in the light of greatly limited resources. The glitz and glamour of entertainment-based programming will be replaced by ministries that meet the very real physical and spiritual needs of people who are discovering what humility really means.</p>
<p><strong>2. Ministry will become increasingly community-based.</strong> In fact, many churches will have no building at all.</p>
<p><strong>3. True believers will be identified only after the faux &#8216;Christians&#8217; fall away.</strong> I hate to say it so bluntly, but the churches in this nation are filled with people who will be stunned and amazed to find that their pet project or ministry must take a back-seat to more hands-on and real-world ministry. The sad truth is that our churches will be better off without them, because to the faux &#8216;Christians,&#8217; it was never &#8216;all about Him&#8217; in the first place.</p>
<p><strong>4. As God allows our nation to go through this period of change, the Church will be marked by renewed passion, sharper focus, and more intentional ministry.</strong> As a result, we will see people won to Christ because of a true spiritual hunger that for so long has been numbed by a steady diet of materialism and pride. Talk about feeding the monster!</p>
<p>Now please don&#8217;t misunderstand me. I&#8217;m not a prophet, a priest, or a king. These are merely my thoughts and impressions, albeit after a period of prayer and searching. I could be wrong. And I certainly wouldn&#8217;t claim to lay out a timetable for all this. Besides, God could hear and answer the prayers of His people and restore this land to a place of wealth and luxury that we could only dream of. But when I think about how He lived among us during His ministry, I don&#8217;t think of extraordinary; I think of extra <em>ordinary</em>.</p>
<p>Plain. Simple. Humble.</p>
<p>So, I guess the answer to our prayers is entirely dependent upon what it is we&#8217;re praying. Are you praying for God to stem the tide, protect your assets, and keep you comfortable and secure? Or are you praying for God to do whatever it takes to get people&#8217;s attention, that they might see Him and believe before it is too late?</p>
<p>The truth is that, according to Scripture, sooner or later everyone is going to confess Him as Lord. My job as a believer is to pray that God will do whatever it takes &#8211; and use me as He will &#8211; to make sure that as many people as possible confess, &#8220;Jesus is Lord&#8221; on this side of eternity.</p>
<p>When this life draws to an end, that&#8217;s the only thing that will matter anyway.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 06:35:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garrick D. Conner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I sit here writing at the end of 2009, I do so in a different house . . . a different city . . . a different state than I started the year. Surrounded by different people. Serving a different church. Indeed this year has brought a great deal of &#8216;different&#8217; into my life. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=1769&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1773" style="border:0;" title="new-year" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/new-year.jpg?w=300&#038;h=212" alt="" width="300" height="212" /></a>As I sit here writing at the end of 2009, I do so in a different house . . . a different city . . . a different state than I started the year. Surrounded by different people. Serving a different church. Indeed this year has brought a great deal of &#8216;different&#8217; into my life. But there&#8217;s at least one good thing that remains the same.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m in the process of becoming what Christ wants me to be.</em></p>
<p>Rather than spending a lot of time focusing on what <em>I </em>want to do in the year ahead (even though I have a few things in mind), I think my energy would be better served seeking what <em>God </em>wants to do <em>through </em>me.</p>
<p>This world is such a chaotic place, and as I&#8217;ve alluded to a number of times before, sometimes that gets me down. I&#8217;ve learned through the years that there&#8217;s no shame in expressing emotions. There&#8217;s no shame in being real, authentic, transparent. There are risks involved with all those things &#8212; but I find that the joys far outweigh the vulnerabilities &#8212; and the opportunities for heart-to-heart ministry are found most readily at the intersections of our weaknesses. Even the psalmist dealt with emotional highs and lows, as evidenced in his writings. And I seriously doubt that he&#8217;d care much about playing the role of &#8216;perfect Christian&#8217; that our culture seems so eager to cast &#8212; all for the sake of tearing down later in the theatre of public opinion.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not the only one with doubts and fears either. In fact, what would a Christmas play be without an angel to say, &#8220;Do not be afraid&#8221;?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not the only one who sometimes ventures off-course in my daily time with God. In my walk with Him, sometimes I lag behind . . . sometimes I wander ahead.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not the only one who sometimes says things I shouldn&#8217;t say and does things I shouldn&#8217;t do. It&#8217;s called sin, and Scripture clearly tells us that <em>all </em>have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. (Romans 3:23)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not the only one who sometimes wrestles with priorities and suffers the physical, spiritual, and emotional consequences of an unbalanced life.</p>
<p>No, I&#8217;m not the only one. But there&#8217;s still not much consolation in that fact.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s something different though: I <em>am </em>the only one who can moment by moment make the choice to surrender my will to that of the Father . . . to allow myself to just sit with Him awhile . . . to be still and know that He is God.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard it said that the longer you live, the more you realize you don&#8217;t know. As I cross over into a new year, I will view it as a new beginning of sorts. But more than that, I will choose to view each day as a precious gift in which the God of the universe allows me to know Him more fully and share His message more freely with those who need to hear.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not a cookie-cutter Christian. Instead I am hand-crafted by the Master, called according to His purposes, and fearfully and wonderfully made to bring glory to Him alone.</p>
<p>That, my friends, is what I want to do best in the year ahead &#8212; in whatever form it may take.</p>
<p>I pray God&#8217;s richest blessings on you in the new year. More than that, I pray that you will know how wide, how long, how high, and how deep is the love of Christ. (Eph. 3:18)</p>
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		<title>One month from today . . .</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s December 1. Believe it or not! We&#8217;re heading into a busy season. And one month from today, we&#8217;ll greet a whole new year. This post is definitely a challenge &#8212; for me and for you. Here are 30 questions I&#8217;m already pondering as I think toward 2010: PERSONAL LIFE What do I want to be different [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=1713&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1717" style="border:0;" title="December 30-Day Challenge" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/december-30-day-challenge.jpg?w=300&#038;h=280" alt="" width="300" height="280" /></a>It&#8217;s December 1. Believe it or not! We&#8217;re heading into a busy season. And one month from today, we&#8217;ll greet a whole new year. This post is definitely a challenge &#8212; for me and for you.</p>
<p>Here are 30 questions I&#8217;m already pondering as I think toward 2010:</p>
<p><strong>PERSONAL LIFE</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What do I want to be different in my personal life?</li>
<li>Who do I want to influence?</li>
<li>Who do I want to get to know?</li>
<li>What subject do I want to learn more about?</li>
<li>What books do I want to read?</li>
<li>What habit do I want to break?</li>
<li>What habit do I want to develop?</li>
<li>What friendship(s) do I need to re-evaluate?</li>
<li>What places do I want to go?</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>FAMILY LIFE</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What words do I need to say more?</li>
<li>What words do I need to eliminate altogether?</li>
<li>In what relationships do I need to invest more?</li>
<li>What boundaries do I need to re-negotiate?</li>
<li>What household chores do I need to do more?</li>
<li>What values do I want to instill?</li>
<li>To whom do I need to say, &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221;?</li>
<li>Who do I need to forgive?</li>
<li>Who do I need to affirm/encourage?</li>
<li>Who do I need to appreciate more?</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>SPIRITUAL LIFE</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What work do I want to see God do in me?</li>
<li>What secret sin do I need to stop?</li>
<li>For whom do I need to pray more?</li>
<li>What spiritual disciplines do I need to develop?</li>
<li>How can I intentionally develop relationships with non-believers?</li>
<li>With whom do I need to intentionally share my faith?</li>
<li>What part of my life do I need to give more completely to Christ?</li>
<li>What community ministry do I need to personally invest in?</li>
<li>What individuals do I need to personally help disciple?</li>
<li>How much does God want me to give financially for Kingdom work?</li>
</ul>
<p>I encourage you to take one question each of the next 30 days &#8212; and seriously ponder it throughout the day. Customize this list by replacing some questions with others that God brings to mind for you. At the end of the month, you&#8217;ll have a pretty good idea of how you&#8217;d like 2010 to be . . . and you won&#8217;t have to worry with making last-minute promises that you&#8217;ll probably end up breaking anyway.</p>
<p>By investing this time in prayerfully considering these questions, you&#8217;ll exchange resolutions for a roadmap. As always, I&#8217;d love to hear how it goes.</p>
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