Archives For Christmas

Christmas Eve seems a perfect time to reflect on what it is I most wish for as a grown-up. And yes, I use that term loosely, because who among us ever completely feels grown-up? I sometimes find myself longing for the innocence of childhood.

I remember very well marking items in the Sears and JCPenney catalogs as I created a ‘wish list’ in my younger days.  I often find myself sitting in our living room, looking at our tree (at right) and thinking about what I most wish for now. Most of us, I believe, still have ‘wish lists,’ but we rarely write them down in our hurried lives. It’s true that the best things in life can’t be wrapped in pretty paper and finished off with a bow.

Here’s my grown-up Christmas list — in no particular order:

  • I wish for more people to know Christ personally.
  • I wish for a cure for cancer, a disease that has taken its toll on my family through the years — and that currently threatens the lives of many.
  • I wish for a few new deep friendships where I can be free to be me.
  • I wish for more quiet time with God, to know Him better.
  • I wish for more quality time with my wife. Our waking moments together are so busy.
  • I wish for more children in this world to have the blessing of godly parents.
  • I wish for protection for our troops, wherever they may serve.
  • I wish for peace in a world full of chaos.
  • I wish for time to stand still for those few moments when I hold my children in my arms.
  • I wish for godly spouses for my children when they grow up.

And yes, I will always wish for a white Christmas — and am hopeful that one day that one really will come true!

There are so many more things that I wish for — and pray for. I encourage you to take a moment to jot down your own grown-up Christmas list.

I pray that you will always remember that Jesus is the reason for this wonderful season of the year.

Merry Christmas to you and your family!

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Finding focus

December 16, 2009 — Leave a comment

Focus. It’s something we hear a lot about.

We’re encouraged to focus on our job . . . our family . . . our health . . . our relationship with Christ. I don’t know about you, but I’ve found it difficult to focus while multi-tasking. And that’s what we do so much of in this fast-paced world in which we live.

Focus demands time, attention, discipline, determination. It demands energy, perseverance, and practice. Perhaps more than anything else though, focus requires intentionality. After all, it is just far too easy to become distracted.

As believers in Christ, focus happens when we begin to view all we do as an expression of God at work in us and through us. It is, in fact, our relationship with Him that becomes the lens through which everything else properly comes into focus.

At this season of the year, so often we focus on the baby in the manger. And while that’s a vital part of the Christmas story, I find it more significant to focus on the meaning of the Christ-child’s name: Emmanuel. Not “God was with us” or “God is gonna be with us” but rather “God IS with us.”

In one moment more than 2000 years ago, the hope of the world was born. And nothing will ever be the same. Are you living your life in the reality of Emmanuel? Would you say some of the things you say, watch some of the things you watch, or do some of the things you do if you really considered that He is with you? For me, that’s a sobering thought — and one that has the power to change my focus.

Perhaps it can help change yours as well.

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