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My family just returned from a wonderful vacation in Florida. It was everything I had hoped it would be — and more.

We started with a couple days in Orlando, where we did a little sight-seeing and paid a visit to the world’s largest entertainment McDonald’s. It was a pretty cool restaurant, even if the workers couldn’t quite seem to figure out how to take orders. Despite the fancy menu items, I suppose it ran pretty much like any other McDonald’s in that respect. We intentionally saved the whole Disney World experience for a return trip, when the daughter will be old enough to really soak it all in. We did squeeze in a trip to Downtown Disney for some window-shopping and people-watching.

Following our time in Orlando, we drove to West Palm Beach, where we took a two-night cruise to the Bahamas. This was a very fun time for all of us. The scenery was beautiful, the food was delicious, and our time together just couldn’t have been better. The best part though was that my phone was out of service! No calls . . . no emails . . . no text messages — for 48 whole hours!

After docking, we drove to Fort Lauderdale and enjoyed some real down-time at our hotel with a full ocean view. We spent leisurely moments on the beach, riding the waves, collecting seashells, and soaking in the sunshine. Even with some high-powered sunblock, generously re-applied, we each managed to get pretty nasty sunburns. I suppose the sunburn is the closest we came to a lasting souvenir. The burn on my back actually has finger outlines, thanks to the kids hasty help with the sunscreen!

I’ve always enjoyed a good vacation . . . but this one was different. We really were able to enjoy some real rest and relaxation. Although our locations changed every couple days, we didn’t feel rushed. We had great weather, great laughs, and even got to reconnect with some great friends — and make some new ones.

Now it’s Monday again . . . and there are many things that need attention at the office. I think I just might take a few seashells to work so that I can ‘hear the ocean,’ as my little girl says.

Money is tight in this economy. Perhaps you can’t afford a big vacation . . . that’s OK. Just be sure to take some time to enjoy the ones you love. You’ll be glad you did. And you’ll make memories that last a lifetime.

I typically move at light-speed, juggling a-million-and-one tasks, each of which someone out there thinks should be priority #1. I’m learning though the important discipline of self-care; that is, making sure my own spirit is nourished, refreshed, and recharged so that I can be most engaged as a husband and father — and most effective as a minister.

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It’s December 1. Believe it or not! We’re heading into a busy season. And one month from today, we’ll greet a whole new year. This post is definitely a challenge — for me and for you.

Here are 30 questions I’m already pondering as I think toward 2010:

PERSONAL LIFE

  • What do I want to be different in my personal life?
  • Who do I want to influence?
  • Who do I want to get to know?
  • What subject do I want to learn more about?
  • What books do I want to read?
  • What habit do I want to break?
  • What habit do I want to develop?
  • What friendship(s) do I need to re-evaluate?
  • What places do I want to go?

FAMILY LIFE

  • What words do I need to say more?
  • What words do I need to eliminate altogether?
  • In what relationships do I need to invest more?
  • What boundaries do I need to re-negotiate?
  • What household chores do I need to do more?
  • What values do I want to instill?
  • To whom do I need to say, “I’m sorry”?
  • Who do I need to forgive?
  • Who do I need to affirm/encourage?
  • Who do I need to appreciate more?

SPIRITUAL LIFE

  • What work do I want to see God do in me?
  • What secret sin do I need to stop?
  • For whom do I need to pray more?
  • What spiritual disciplines do I need to develop?
  • How can I intentionally develop relationships with non-believers?
  • With whom do I need to intentionally share my faith?
  • What part of my life do I need to give more completely to Christ?
  • What community ministry do I need to personally invest in?
  • What individuals do I need to personally help disciple?
  • How much does God want me to give financially for Kingdom work?

I encourage you to take one question each of the next 30 days — and seriously ponder it throughout the day. Customize this list by replacing some questions with others that God brings to mind for you. At the end of the month, you’ll have a pretty good idea of how you’d like 2010 to be . . . and you won’t have to worry with making last-minute promises that you’ll probably end up breaking anyway.

By investing this time in prayerfully considering these questions, you’ll exchange resolutions for a roadmap. As always, I’d love to hear how it goes.

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