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		<title>Life: A sacred design, an unalienable right</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 09:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garrick D. Conner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.&#8221; Self-evident. Really? These familiar words from our Declaration of Independence seem to hold less merit with each passing year. Today [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3969&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3975" style="border:0 none;" title="sanctity-of-life" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/sanctity-of-life.jpg?w=390&#038;h=390" alt="" width="390" height="390" /></a>&#8220;We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.&#8221;</p>
<p>Self-evident. Really? These familiar words from our <a href="http://www.constitution.org/usdeclar.pdf" target="_blank">Declaration of Independence</a> seem to hold less merit with each passing year.</p>
<p>Today Southern Baptists across this nation recognize &#8216;Sanctity of Human Life Sunday.&#8217; A national day to acknowledge the value of human life was first set aside in a <a href="http://www.reagan.utexas.edu/archives/speeches/1984/11384c.htm" target="_blank">proclamation</a> by President Ronald Reagan in 1984. That, of course, was eleven years after the US Supreme Court&#8217;s landmark decision, Roe v. Wade, which legalized abortion in the United States. The principal decision repealed all state laws prohibiting abortion.</p>
<p>Now, some 39 years after Roe v. Wade &#8212; and more than 50 million abortions later &#8212; many in the Christian community continue to pray for Roe v. Wade to be overturned. Of course, with an increasingly liberal set of supreme court justices, such an ambitious goal seems unlikely in the near future. Still many individuals, churches, and pro-life groups continue to wage war on behalf of the unborn.</p>
<p>Perhaps no one more deeply regrets the high court&#8217;s decision than Norma McCorvey, better known as &#8220;Jane Roe,&#8221; the plaintiff in the case. In her book <em>Won by Love</em>, McCorvey explained her changed view on the issue of abortion:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I was sitting in O.R.&#8217;s offices when I noticed a fetal development poster. The progression was so obvious, the eyes were so sweet. It hurt my heart, just looking at them. I ran outside and finally, it dawned on me. &#8216;Norma&#8217;, I said to myself, &#8216;They&#8217;re right&#8217;. I had worked with pregnant women for years. I had been through three pregnancies and deliveries myself. I should have known. Yet something in that poster made me lose my breath. I kept seeing the picture of that tiny, 10-week-old embryo, and I said to myself, that&#8217;s a baby! It&#8217;s as if blinders just fell off my eyes and I suddenly understood the truth — that&#8217;s a baby!</p>
<p>I felt crushed under the truth of this realization. I had to face up to the awful reality. Abortion wasn&#8217;t about &#8216;products of conception&#8217;. It wasn&#8217;t about &#8216;missed periods&#8217;. It was about children being killed in their mother&#8217;s wombs. All those years I was wrong. Signing that affidavit, I was wrong. Working in an abortion clinic, I was wrong. No more of this first trimester, second trimester, third trimester stuff. Abortion — at any point — was wrong. It was so clear. Painfully clear.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>McCorvey, now 64, has since been re-confirmed as a member in the Catholic Church. She is an ardent supporter of the pro-life cause.</p>
<p>Having served as a licensed therapist for a number of years, I have personally witnessed the damage that abortion does &#8212; emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Increasingly, there is concern in the medical community about physical harm as well, including a possible link between abortion and breast cancer.</p>
<p>Of course, only God knows the full scope of the impact of abortion. However, in my therapeutic and ministerial counseling with women, I have seen first-hand the anguish, torment, and far-reaching effects of abortion on family relationships. I only know that what many Americans want to view as a choice is altogether inconsistent with both the words of Scripture in <a href="http://www.biblestudytools.com/psalms/passage.aspx?q=psalms+139:13-16" target="_blank">Psalm 139:13-16</a>, <em>and </em>the Judeo-Christian values that our nation&#8217;s founding fathers sought to serve as the cornerstone of our republic. Consider these words from President Reagan:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Make no mistake, abortion-on-demand is not a right granted by the Constitution. No serious scholar, including one disposed to agree with the Court&#8217;s result, has argued that the framers of the Constitution intended to create such a right.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Reagan argued that it is impossible &#8220;to diminish the value of one category of human life &#8212; the unborn &#8212; without diminishing the value of all human life.&#8221;</p>
<p>Perhaps the most amazing thing about God is His ability to forgive the sin of those who call upon the name of Jesus. If you have had an abortion, you can still find forgiveness in Him. If you are considering abortion, please reach out to a local Crisis Pregnancy Center. Their staff can help you find solutions that preserve both the life of your baby and the integrity of your emotional self. (<a href="http://covenantnews.com/pregnant/" target="_blank">Click here to find a center near you</a>.)</p>
<p><strong>YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!</strong></p>
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<li>Pray for those who may be considering abortion.</li>
<li>Find a way to volunteer or otherwise contribute to a Christian family ministry or local Crisis Pregnancy Center. (Diapers, formula, baby clothes, and bedding are always in demand.)</li>
<li>Consider adopting a child or serving as a foster parent or respite care worker.</li>
<li>Become involved in your local or state pro-life movement, and be a voice for the unborn.</li>
<li>Pray for an end to legalized abortion in America.</li>
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<p>On this Sanctity of Human Life Day, let&#8217;s pray and work together for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness to be equal rights for both the born and the unborn.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>Does your church participate or somehow acknowledge Sanctity of Human Life Day? If so, how? Do you have other thoughts or comments to share on this subject?</p>
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		<title>3 lies the devil can&#8217;t wait for you to believe (and how to beat him back)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 09:31:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garrick D. Conner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Growing up in a church-going family, I learned early on that the devil was a very real part of life. Of course, it didn&#8217;t hurt that in the deep South, certain oft-repeated phrases served as a healthy reminder of that fact . . . things like: &#8221; . . . scared the devil out of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3900&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-3903 alignright" style="border:0 none;" title="lies-of-the-devil" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/lies-of-the-devil.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Growing up in a church-going family, I learned early on that the devil was a very real part of life. Of course, it didn&#8217;t hurt that in the deep South, certain oft-repeated phrases served as a healthy reminder of that fact . . . things like:</p>
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<ul>
<li>&#8221; . . . scared the devil out of me!&#8221; (whenever somebody got <em>really </em>frightened)</li>
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<ul>
<li>&#8221; . . . the devil whippin&#8217; his wife&#8221; (whenever rain and sun were present at the same time)</li>
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<ul>
<li>&#8220;The devil got into him.&#8221; (whenever one succumbed to the temptations of the evil one)</li>
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<p>Scripture teaches us that the battles we wage as believers really are largely battles of good versus evil. Too often we let evil have victory in our lives &#8212; in the so-called &#8216;little things&#8217; that perhaps don&#8217;t make much difference. Or so we say.</p>
<p>The truth is that Satan, while extremely shrewd, is also limited. There are only so many tricks he has up his sleeve. The sad thing is that even though we can spot his arsenal pretty much anywhere, we still let him have his way far too often without so much as a whimper, let alone a fight.</p>
<p>For those who are in Christ, the best hope the devil has is to discourage our hearts, distract us from our mission, and define us by our past. He knows that Christ has already won the victory, and the pages of history are just playing out according to God&#8217;s perfect plan. Therefore, Satan focuses on us with laser-like precision in a battle for our minds. You see, if he can get us in a mental tug-of-war, we&#8217;ll never be effective for the Kingdom of God.</p>
<p><strong>HERE ARE THREE LIES SATAN CAN&#8217;T WAIT FOR YOU TO BELIEVE:</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. &#8220;You don&#8217;t really belong to God.&#8221; </strong>With this lie Satan aims at the very heart of our faith. He challenges us to doubt our salvation experience &#8212; and pulls out lots of &#8216;evidence&#8217; from our emotional pile of dirty laundry. &#8220;If you belonged to God,  you wouldn&#8217;t do these sinful things,&#8221; he whispers. Reality Check: Not all doubts are necessarily from Satan. However, while salvation is a point of decision/acceptance of God&#8217;s gift to us through Jesus Christ, personal <span style="color:#6693bc;"><a title="The process of becoming" href="http://garrickdconner.com/2009/12/31/the-process-of-becoming/"><span style="color:#6693bc;">discipleship is a process</span></a></span> that will not reach completion until we meet Jesus face to face<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong></strong><strong>2. &#8220;God doesn&#8217;t really care about you.&#8221; </strong>This is a real manipulative power play that has only one goal: confusion. In this mode, Satan brings all our problems to the forefront of our mind: debt, health issues, relationship and intimacy problems, dissatisfaction with work, etc. I think some of Satan&#8217;s chief channels for communicating this ridiculous message are the proponents of the &#8216;health and prosperity gospel.&#8217; That&#8217;s not to say that those individuals are not believers &#8212; but to point out that Satan can use even believers to bring about confusion. We live in a fallen world. Problems come. People die &#8212; which in most cases involves developing some sort of health issue &#8212; no matter how faithful they are to the Lord.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>3. &#8220;This is as good as it gets.&#8221;</strong> Every now and then, Satan tries to convince us that the Bible is just one big fairytale. He tells us there&#8217;s no God, no heaven, no abundant life. In this line of attack, the devil strives to drive daggers in our very hope. If we begin to think there&#8217;s no hope, then we&#8217;ll certainly not be sharing the Good News with others.</p>
<p>I believe that everyone has doubts from time to time; otherwise, there would be no need for faith. However, when those doubts arise, the only proper response is to confess them to God (He already knows what you&#8217;re thinking and feeling), challenge them with Scripture, and command in Jesus&#8217; name that Satan have no power over your mind.</p>
<p>And always hold on to the powerful truth of Scripture:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming and even now is already in the world. You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because <em>the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world</em>.&#8221; &#8211; 1 John 4:2-4, NIV [emphasis mine]</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are some other lies that Satan tells you? How do you handle those times when doubts arise?</p>
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		<title>3 truths to remember in life&#8217;s &#8216;sudden impacts&#8217;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 18:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garrick D. Conner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;You can’t prepare for a sudden impact. You can’t brace yourself. It just hits you out of nowhere. And suddenly, the life you knew before is over forever.” Those were the closing words of last Thursday&#8217;s episode of &#8220;Grey&#8217;s Anatomy.&#8221; And while I wouldn&#8217;t describe myself as a regular watcher of that TV drama, I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3846&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-3860 alignleft" style="border:0 none;" title="Life Changing Event Ahead Road Sign" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/life-changing-event-ahead.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>&#8220;You can’t prepare for a sudden impact. You can’t brace yourself. It just hits you out of nowhere. And suddenly, the life you knew before is over forever.”</p>
<p>Those were the closing words of last Thursday&#8217;s episode of &#8220;Grey&#8217;s Anatomy.&#8221; And while I wouldn&#8217;t describe myself as a regular watcher of that TV drama, I couldn&#8217;t help but consider the profound truth of that statement &#8212; and the many people who, through anguish and tears, can testify to that. The journey of life does not come with a universal early warning system. Sometimes life can go from perfectly sunny to dark, stormy, and chaotic in just a split second.</p>
<p>There are, in fact, millions of stories &#8212; all of which represent actual people &#8212; that bear evidence of sudden impact. Just in the past year or so, you and I have witnessed a number of them in our own lives or the lives of someone we love. Many things can cause sudden impact, including: auto accidents, plane crashes, storms, earthquakes, fires, health issues, unanticipated deaths, miscarriages, loss of jobs, murders, suicides . . . The list goes on and on.</p>
<p>During my time in ministry I have walked with many people through &#8216;sudden impact&#8217; situations.</p>
<p>The shock.</p>
<p>The horror.</p>
<p>The grief.</p>
<p>The devastation.</p>
<p>The despair.</p>
<p>And sometimes, the long road to recovery.</p>
<p>The truth is that if we live long enough, we&#8217;ll experience our share of sudden impacts. There are three key principles that are helpful to remember:</p>
<p><strong>1. God is God, and we are not. </strong>He is sovereign and in control. He is never caught off-guard. While the things of this life often leave us shocked, dismayed, and disheartened, God sees the bigger picture. What&#8217;s difficult at times for us to accept is that we may not be able to glimpse much of that bigger picture this side of heaven.</p>
<p><strong>2. God can be trusted to provide strength and comfort to the broken-hearted. </strong>It&#8217;s often in those moments when time seems to stand still that His presence can most be felt. Scripture tells us that His grace is sufficient for all our needs. What I&#8217;ve come to realize through the years is that He gives us more grace <em>at the time </em>we need it most &#8212; not necessarily before then.</p>
<p><strong>3. God is always worthy of praise and thanksgiving. </strong>No matter what struggles we face or how deep our heartache, God&#8217;s indescribable gift of forgiveness and atonement through His Son, Jesus Christ, makes Him absolutely and forever deserving of glory and honor and praise &#8212; regardless of what this life throws our way. The Apostle Paul, writing to the church at Thessalonica, penned these words:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God&#8217;s will for you in Christ Jesus.&#8221; &#8211; 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, NIV</p></blockquote>
<p>Perhaps you stumbled upon this post by chance today. I choose to believe that nothing in this life happens by chance, but rather, that God in His omniscience knits things together according to a perfect plan that only He can fully understand. Whether you&#8217;re recovering from a sudden impact in your own life &#8212; or perhaps about to experience one &#8212; God alone is the One on whom we can cast our cares, because He cares for us. (1 Peter 5:7)</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>How have you experienced the grace of God in your own times of sudden impact? What other traits of God can you testify to during times of difficulty?</p>
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		<title>10 secrets to keeping those resolutions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 10:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garrick D. Conner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new year is a great time to evaluate life . . . to reflect on successes, failures, hurts, disappointments, losses &#8212; and to look forward to the promise of new beginnings. Even though we are free to &#8216;start fresh&#8217; anytime, there&#8217;s something psychologically powerful about turning the calendar page to a brand new year. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3821&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3833" style="border:0 none;margin-left:2px;margin-right:2px;" title="happy-new-year-2012" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/happy-new-year-2012.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>A new year is a great time to evaluate life . . . to reflect on successes, failures, hurts, disappointments, losses &#8212; and to look forward to the promise of new beginnings. Even though we are free to &#8216;start fresh&#8217; anytime, there&#8217;s something psychologically powerful about turning the calendar page to a brand new year.</p>
<p>Of course, there are many who will make resolutions to improve themselves in some way during 2012. Surveys have indicated that most resolutions don&#8217;t make it past the month of January. Today I offer you ten secrets to guaranteed success:</p>
<p><strong>1. Don&#8217;t personalize your goals. </strong>Simply read one of those New Year&#8217;s articles in Sunday&#8217;s paper and use that as your goal-making guide. Better yet, just ask your friends what their goals are and resolve to do the same. Just think of all the time you&#8217;ll save.</p>
<p><strong>2. Don&#8217;t write down your goals. </strong>Not on paper. Not on your computer. Not on your bathroom mirror. Nowhere at all! Before a week has come and gone, you&#8217;ll have forgotten any of these silly little dreams and can get back to being the same ol&#8217; you that you&#8217;ve always been.</p>
<p><strong>3. Don&#8217;t be realistic in your thinking. </strong>Shoot for the stars! Don&#8217;t settle for  just a little self-improvement. Go all out and aim for a total life transformation.</p>
<p><strong>4. Don&#8217;t pace yourself. </strong>Accept no waiting! Do you really want that perfect body in 30 days? Then flip on the TV and order the latest, greatest gadget from one of those overnight infomercials. They <em>really </em>work. Plus, you almost always get a free gift or two if you &#8216;order now.&#8217;</p>
<p><strong>5. Don&#8217;t believe in yourself. </strong>Adopt a &#8216;No I Can&#8217;t&#8217; mentality.This is a well-kept secret of some of the most successful people in the world. For example, if you really want to drop some pounds, just say &#8216;no&#8217; to every temptation that comes your way. Not one Hershey&#8217;s kiss. Not one potato chip. Not one carrot dipped in extra Ranch dressing. Ever!</p>
<p><strong>6. Don&#8217;t set a deadline. </strong>By keeping your options completely open, you can be your own judge of progress made toward your goals. In six months&#8217; time when you haven&#8217;t really seen any change at all, you can honestly say you haven&#8217;t failed but are just waiting to identify the perfect moment to break out of your rut.</p>
<p><strong>7. Don&#8217;t tell anyone about your goals. </strong>Not. One. Soul. Once people know your business, they tend to lord it over you acting as your moral and spiritual compass. They&#8217;ll ask how you&#8217;re doing . . . remind you of your target . . . encourage you &#8212; and maybe even pray for your success. You certainly wouldn&#8217;t want anyone interfering like that.</p>
<p><strong>8. Don&#8217;t do anything too hard.</strong> Simple is often better. Keep breathing. Keep eating. Keep sleeping. Basically don&#8217;t attempt to do anything a cat wouldn&#8217;t. Success is sure to be yours.</p>
<p><strong>9. Don&#8217;t evaluate your progress or adjust your goals. </strong>Of course, if you follow #2 carefully, then this one will be a real piece of cake.</p>
<p><strong>10. Don&#8217;t ask for God&#8217;s help. </strong>There&#8217;s what . . . seven <em>billion</em> people on this rotating rock called Earth? Surely He wouldn&#8217;t be interested in <em>you</em>. Do everything in your own power, and just think of the boasting you can do at the end of the year.</p>
<p>OK, so maybe you&#8217;ve picked up on a bit of sarcasm in this post. Someone once said that they weren&#8217;t making resolutions for the new year because last year&#8217;s resolutions were as good as new. Don&#8217;t let that be your testimony. I encourage you to take some time to identify just a few areas in which you&#8217;d like to see some improvement. Even if you haven&#8217;t fully specified your goals as of January 1, a few extra days of sincere and thoughtful planning will likely pay big dividends in the long run.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re serious about making some changes in this new year, then I wish you all the best. Aim for S.M.A.R.T goals: Specific, Measurable, Action-Oriented, Realistic, and Time-Sensitive. Remember that moderation is preferable, and accountability is almost always essential.</p>
<p>In closing, consider these powerful and familiar words from the Apostle Paul:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.&#8221; &#8211; Philippians 3:12-14, ESV</p></blockquote>
<p>May God richly bless you and your family in this new year of life.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What are some things you wish to improve upon in this new year? What are the biggest challenges to reaching your goals?</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 16:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Christmas is such a special time of year to me for so many reasons. I enjoy all the sights and sounds, the friends and family, and, of course, the food. However, there&#8217;s something I like even more than all that. Each year at Christmas, my church, along with thousands of other Southern Baptist churches, shines [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3807&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3808" style="border:0 none;margin-left:3px;margin-right:3px;" title="joy-to-the-world" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/joy-to-the-world.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Christmas is such a special time of year to me for so many reasons. I enjoy all the sights and sounds, the friends and family, and, of course, the food. However, there&#8217;s something I like even more than all that. Each year at Christmas, my church, along with thousands of other Southern Baptist churches, shines a light on international missions.</p>
<p>I have missionary friends in literally every part of the world. These are people who sacrifice much for the sake of sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ with people who need to know Him as Lord and Savior. Today I&#8217;d like you to take a moment right where you are to pray for our international missionaries. Pray for their safety, their obedience, and their families. Most of all, pray that God would use them in incredible ways to impact the Kingdom.</p>
<p>From the comfort of our own homes, it can be difficult to really relate to what many international missionaries endure for the sake of the call. I&#8217;ve had the privilege already this month of meeting several new missionary families in person. Their call is evident. Their passion is contagious. Their commitment is clear. Whether here in the United States or around the world, the commission of Christ-followers is to go and share the love and message of Christ at every opportunity. I am immensely grateful for these missionaries who leave their families to go and serve in places where most of us probably wouldn&#8217;t desire to go.</p>
<p>If I&#8217;ve learned anything at all from my missionary friends, it&#8217;s that the love of Christ knows no boundaries and no limits. I invite you to take six minutes of your time right now to watch this beautiful video, put to the world edition of Chris Tomlin&#8217;s &#8220;How Great is Our God.&#8221; I think you&#8217;ll be blessed as your heart is drawn to the unreached people all over the world.</p>
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For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.&#8221;</em> &#8211; John 3:16-17 (ESV)</p></blockquote>
<p>That&#8217;s the essence of Christmas. God loves us so much that He gave the perfect gift by sending Jesus to be our Redeemer. &#8220;Joy to the world! The Lord is come. Let earth receive her King!&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>Is there any particular people group or region of the world that your heart is drawn to pray for?</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 08:30:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Those who know me can attest to the fact that I absolutely love the Christmas season. Really, everything from Thanksgiving until New Year&#8217;s Day is just fun and festive. I enjoy the music, the lights, the parties, the food. I just like it all. One of my dad&#8217;s favorite Christmas songs is Elvis Presley&#8217;s &#8220;Blue [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3777&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:left;"><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-3784 aligncenter" style="border:0 none;" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/christmas-dog-sad-gdc.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>Those who know me can attest to the fact that I absolutely <em>love </em>the Christmas season. Really, everything from Thanksgiving until New Year&#8217;s Day is just fun and festive. I enjoy the music, the lights, the parties, the food. I just like it all.</p>
<p>One of my dad&#8217;s favorite Christmas songs is Elvis Presley&#8217;s &#8220;Blue Christmas.&#8221; For many this year, the holidays are proving especially challenging &#8212; even blue, as the case may be. I know a number of people who have lost loved ones and are spending their first Christmas without a spouse, a child, a mother, a father, a sibling, a grandparent, or a best friend. For those who are grieving a loss, Christmastime can actually exacerbate their feelings of sadness and loneliness. Many of these people will make a brave effort to carry on. They may have managed to haul out the decorations, put up the tree, and listen to some festive music, but it&#8217;s just not the same.</p>
<p>The very memories that comfort can also evoke a deeper pain. Little things the person never even thought about before are now right at the forefront of the mind. They run across an ornament that held special meaning for their loved one, and their eyes begin to water. They hear a silly Christmas song that used to drive their loved one crazy &#8212; or a sappy movie often shared together &#8212; yet somehow this year that memory just underscores the sense of loss. They cook &#8212; or are served &#8212; a favorite holiday food their loved one just couldn&#8217;t do without, and it just doesn&#8217;t taste the same. During times like this we often discover a profound truth: The things we thought we loved most were really only loved because of the ones we shared them with.</p>
<p>There are many firsts that are hard to handle:<span id="more-3777"></span></p>
<ul>
<li>Finding that stocking and knowing it probably doesn&#8217;t need to be hung this year.</li>
<li>Addressing Christmas cards, signed without the deceased family member&#8217;s name. (This exercise is ten times worse when the annual card or letter is the means by which news of the death must be shared with long-distance friends and acquaintances.)</li>
<li>Realizing that this year is the first year &#8212; maybe ever &#8212; that cards and/or gifts will not be exchanged with that special person.</li>
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<p>Of course, death is not the only thing that can sour the holiday season. There are many parents dealing with devastating illnesses &#8212; for themselves or one of their children. Every effort may be made to make this Christmas the best one ever. After all, the unspoken fear is that this might be the last one they&#8217;ll have together. And even with all the effort put forward, the reality is that neither party may have enough energy to actually enjoy it.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been reminded this year that life is so incredibly precious. I attended one funeral service last week in Mississippi &#8212; and had another this week that I really should have attended. Over the next couple days I&#8217;ll attend two more. I have several friends and family members fighting extremely uphill battles with cancer &#8212; and other friends who are sitting with their terminally ill children, already in hospice care. For them, twinkling Christmas lights just don&#8217;t matter much right now.</p>
<p>With just a week or so left before Christmas Day, let me offer a few thoughts. Perhaps <em>you </em>are one of those people I&#8217;ve described above. If so, don&#8217;t be too hard on yourself. Everyone grieves a little differently. Resist the urge to isolate yourself from the hustle and bustle around you. The sounds that seem so obnoxiously annoying this year will, in time, gain a new sense of significance that you&#8217;ll again appreciate. Joy can return to your hurting heart &#8212; and it will. Also, know that as silly as it might sound, a &#8216;scheduled cry time&#8217; may take the edge off and allow you to be more engaged with those around you. You must find what works for you &#8212; and unfortunately that process is mainly trial-and-error.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re someone who just stumbled upon this page and is thinking, &#8220;How depressing!&#8221;, then I congratulate you on your banner year &#8212; but remind you that we usually don&#8217;t know when we&#8217;ll transfer from joy-filled to grief-stricken. Tragedy is unpredictable, and loss is often unforeseen. Be sensitive to those in your life who are going through the holidays without someone they love. Jot them a note of encouragement, just to let them know you&#8217;re thinking about them and you care. Don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t &#8216;remind&#8217; them of their loss; they&#8217;re quite aware of it. It will mean more to them than you can possibly know to hear that someone remembers the hole in their heart.</p>
<p>In practicing grace, kindness, and generosity to those who are grieving, sad, burdened or downtrodden, you will embrace the very essence of what this season is all about. You can&#8217;t keep anyone from having a &#8216;blue Christmas,&#8217; but you can help it be just a shade lighter. (See what one church in Tennessee is doing to minister to those who are hurting: <a href="http://bit.ly/vd3Z0G" target="_blank">Click Here</a>)</p>
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IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
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<li>Are you experiencing a blue Christmas this year? If so, what suggestions can you offer for how people can help you?</li>
<li>Have you recently ministered to someone who is struggling this holiday season? How was your attempt at kindness received?</li>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 07:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It hardly seems possible that the holidays could be here already. After all, didn&#8217;t I just get all those boxes of Christmas decorations back in the attic? Well, maybe not, but in my estimation this has been an incredibly fast year. While there are still several weeks left in this calendar year, one thing is [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3674&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It hardly seems possible that the holidays could be here already. After all, didn&#8217;t I <em>just </em>get all those boxes of Christmas decorations back in the attic? Well, maybe not, but in my estimation this has been an incredibly fast year.</p>
<p>While there are still several weeks left in this calendar year, one thing is certain: This has been a year of dramatic changes. From political uprisings and civil unrest to record-setting weather patterns, 2011 will leave an indelible mark on this world. With all the negative news coming at us &#8217;round the clock, it&#8217;s sometimes hard to focus on the good things.</p>
<p>America has long been the &#8216;land of plenty&#8217; &#8212; or, you might say, the &#8216;land of excess.&#8217; You have to wonder what the early settlers to Plymouth Rock would have to say about the way we live. After all, those folks &#8212; who, according to H. U. Westermayer, constructed seven times as many graves as huts &#8212; still saw fit to set aside a time to give thanks to God. These Puritans were arguably the most impoverished Americans ever, yet they acknowledged God as the source of their blessings. They understood the art of thanksgiving.</p>
<p>In this time of persistent protests and rowdy upheaval, there&#8217;s a lot of talk about &#8216;the  99-percent.&#8217; I contend that pretty much all of us constitute the one-percent . . . at least figuratively speaking. Consider this:</p>
<blockquote><p>Americans are some of the wealthiest people in the world, with a very high GDP per capita. Americans are top in the world for most material possessions. The number of televisions, vehicles, and other such products per person are considerably higher than in any other country. For instance, the United States has some 754 televisions for every thousand people. No other country is even above 700, with Japan being closest at 680/1000. [Source: <a href="http://www.economicexpert.com" target="_blank">economicexpert.com</a>]</p></blockquote>
<p>While Americans don&#8217;t necessarily blow <em>every </em>country out of the water, particularly when you consider the long hours so many of us work, we as a people are undeniably blessed. Even with higher-than-usual levels of unemployment, continued home foreclosures, and rising costs of living, for all intents and purposes Americans are indeed blessed. One thing is generally true about tougher times: We are forced to evaluate priorities, strengthen relationships, and develop character &#8212; and hopefully a much deeper appreciation for God.</p>
<p>This Thanksgiving, consider yourself blessed if any or all of the following statements are true for you:<span id="more-3674"></span></p>
<ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You have food, clothing, and shelter.</strong><br />
Nearly two billion people in the world live in poverty.</li>
</ul>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You can read and write.</strong><br />
Nearly 15-percent of people age 15 and up cannot. (worldwide)</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You are gainfully employed &#8212; part-time or full-time.</strong><br />
Millions even in America do not have jobs. (Consider yourself especially blessed if you <em>enjoy</em> your work.)</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You have reasonably good health and access to healthcare services.</strong><br />
Many around the world do not.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You have family who cares about  you.</strong><br />
I recently read about a man who lost every member of his family in an earthquake in Turkey.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You have at least one close friend.</strong><br />
Loneliness is becoming more and more common even in our seemingly connected culture.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>You enjoy physical safety and security.</strong><br />
Many people live in constant fear of crime or terror attacks.</li>
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<p>There are so many other ways by which we can gauge our blessings and quality of life. For me personally, the one thing for which I am most grateful is my relationship with Jesus Christ, who took my sin and shame and died for me that I might enjoy abundant life on earth and eternal life in heaven with Him. Everything else really is gravy. If you don&#8217;t know Him, I&#8217;d love nothing more than to share that gift with you. Feel free to <a href="mailto:garrick.conner@gmail.com" target="_blank">contact me</a>.</p>
<p>I pray that your season of thanksgiving would not be all about a day on the calendar. I pray that you will acknowledge your blessings all year long &#8212; as well as the One from whom all blessings flow. Discover the art of thanksgiving. It can be truly life-changing.</p>
<p>Have a safe and happy Thanksgiving. Here&#8217;s a quick video that says a lot in just 80 seconds:</p>
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</strong>What are you thankful for this year?</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2011 08:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, most of you probably know by now that I&#8217;m a real night owl. Some of the most productive moments in my day occur between 11:00 p.m. and 2:00 a.m. I say that just to acknowledge the fact that, yes, I should be heading to bed as of this writing, but I just have to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3607&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-3614 alignright" style="border:0 none;margin-top:3px;margin-bottom:3px;" title="Sky-lanterns" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/sky-lanterns.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>OK, most of you probably know by now that I&#8217;m a real night owl. Some of the most productive moments in my day occur between 11:00 p.m. and 2:00 a.m. I say that just to acknowledge the fact that, yes, I <em>should </em>be heading to bed as of this writing, but I just have to share something with you.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t you just love it when God speaks to you through the most seemingly insignificant and every-day, run-of-the-mill stuff of life? I do &#8212; regardless of whether it&#8217;s a message I really want to hear. Something about those revelations just speaks to my heart as if to say, &#8220;Garrick, you belong to Me, and I care enough about you that I don&#8217;t want you to miss this!&#8221; The God of the universe in just a matter of a few seconds delivers a generous helping of knowledge that one can&#8217;t help but be a bit blown away.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but there are certain tasks around the house that I enjoy more than others. If I&#8217;m completely honest, I tend to let a lot of little things slide &#8212; especially when I&#8217;m consumed by the details of major projects at the church. One of the tasks I find myself ignoring is that of replacing light bulbs. For some reason our cars and our house love to eat light bulbs. Whether it&#8217;s tail lights, headlights, incandescent lights or fluorescent ones, we get plenty of opportunities to change bulbs in this household.</p>
<p>Well, one day last week I came in to find that not only was one of the long fluorescent bulbs out, it was also broken. This happened to be a fixture that I quite honestly know very little about. Michelle and I looked at it for a while but couldn&#8217;t figure it out. Not all that consciously, I kind of put that little project on hold &#8212; you know, waiting for just the right time when the moon and stars align and the family and work calendars are completely in sync. Like that ever happens. As a result of that decision &#8212; a.k.a., bad choice &#8212; we had to leave the kitchen light off all weekend. It wasn&#8217;t too big of a deal. We just used the light over the eating area as our sole source of light. I guess you could say that there was ambient lighting in the actual kitchen, but I&#8217;m not sure a Vent-A-Hood light and that wimpy little light on the fridge qualify for mood lighting.</p>
<p>Fast forward to Tuesday. I came in from the office, knowing I&#8217;d have just enough time to watch a little news and enjoy dinner with the family before heading out to puppy training class with Maggie. When I entered from the garage and stepped into the house, I was nearly blinded by the light in the kitchen. It seems that while I was slaving away at the office, the &#8216;light bulb fairy&#8217; paid a visit. She apparently found a do-it-yourself video on YouTube to guide her through the process of fixing the broken light and installing the new bulbs.</p>
<p>Now you know how it is when you replace a bulb. It always seems brighter because you get used to it being a little more dim. But when I came in on Tuesday afternoon, the kitchen was lit up like the sun at high noon! I told Michelle that our kitchen now has better lighting than the operating room during my last surgery. You see, not only had we become used to the lesser light from the broken bulb, but we had also failed to notice that another part of the light was burned out.</p>
<p>As I thought about this today, I just kept feeling God say to me, &#8220;This is how your life is when you leave Me out . . . when you put Me on hold. You just get so accustomed to the dimly-lit room that you fail to notice the crumbs, the stains, the debris from the chaos of your busy life.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never really felt convicted by a light fixture before &#8212; and I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s not exactly the source of my conviction now. But God used this little every-day matter to grab my attention. Several life applications come to mind. Failure to take immediate action when we realize there&#8217;s a disconnect between us and God can have profound consequences:<span id="more-3607"></span></p>
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<li><strong>We risk minimizing rather than resolving the problem.</strong> This is a trap that comes in the form of rationalizing the problem or pretending that it will just magically take care of itself with no energy or effort from us required. The truth is that in time our kitchen was only going to get darker, making everything more difficult.</li>
<li><strong>We risk adapting to rather than responding to the situation.</strong> Such passive adaptation can be purely the result of indifference. However, left unchecked, it can prove dangerous and costly. Things could easily go from misreading a spice bottle to severely cutting a hand.</li>
<li><strong>We risk settling for less rather than expecting His best. </strong>So many of the ways God blesses us are directly related to the way we prepare our hearts. In the case of a poorly lit kitchen, it wouldn&#8217;t take long to experience a really bad-tasting dish, all because we misread the recipe.</li>
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<p>Genesis 1:3 says, &#8220;And God said, &#8216;Let there be light,&#8217; and there was light.&#8221; (ESV) God wants us to have light both physically and spiritually.</p>
<p>Whatever is causing poor visibility in your spiritual life, let this be a reminder to do whatever it takes to get back on track <em>now </em>so you won&#8217;t have to pay a much higher price <em>later</em>. God has given us the Word to illumine our path &#8212; and has put the light of Christ in our hearts. May we never ever get comfortable living in darkness when He has called us to shine with His marvelous light.</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t seen it yet, here&#8217;s Brandon Heath&#8217;s very cool video of his song, &#8220;The Light In Me.&#8221;</p>
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IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What is God teaching you lately through the ordinary things of life?</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 01:48:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my years of ministry I have often heard people ask, &#8220;Where is God?&#8221; In times of difficulty and loss . . . in times of heartache and illness . . . in times of violence and chaos, this is a question that&#8217;s repeated in many minds &#8212; even the minds of believers. Today I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=1691&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3523" style="border:0 none;margin:3px 4px;" title="Where-Is-God" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/where-is-god.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>In my years of ministry I have often heard people ask, &#8220;Where is God?&#8221; In times of difficulty and loss . . . in times of heartache and illness . . . in times of violence and chaos, this is a question that&#8217;s repeated in many minds &#8212; even the minds of believers. Today I venture deep inside to my &#8216;inner poet&#8217; to offer this original piece:</p>
<p>&#8220;Where is God?&#8221; is a question that people often ask.<br />
Its answer may surprise you, even take your faith to task.</p>
<p>We find God in the moments in between the ticks of time.<br />
We find Him in the melody of every church-bell chime.<br />
We find Him in the company of friends both far and near.<br />
We find Him in the presence of mem&#8217;ries we hold dear.</p>
<p>We find Him in the shadows of every darkened room.<br />
We find Him in the stale and coldness of the empty tomb.<br />
We find Him in those trials when it seems all hope is lost.<br />
We find Him in the times when life presents its highest cost.</p>
<p>We see His hand in circumstances outside our control.<br />
We feel His presence in the prayers of men both young and old.<br />
We sense His spirit leading in times of great despair.<br />
We hear His voice in children playing in the open air.</p>
<p>Wherever you experience the presence of the Lord,<br />
You&#8217;re bound to find Him holding to the promise of His Word.<br />
He brings new life where He is found; this we surely know.<br />
When you find Him, hold on tight, for He wants you to grow.</p>
<p>So, ask the question all day long, if you really dare.<br />
&#8220;Where is God?&#8221; is best answered with &#8220;God is everywhere.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>At what times in life have you wrestled with this universal question?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[For people all over the world, September 11, 2001 will be a day that lives in infamy in our memory. It was a day that profoundly changed the way most of us think about life &#8212; and a day that took so many lives and shattered the hopes, hearts, and dreams of so many others. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=garrickdconner.com&amp;blog=2294139&amp;post=3502&amp;subd=expressionsandinsights&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.garrickdconner.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3507" style="border:0 none;" title="9-11-2011-America-Remembers" src="http://expressionsandinsights.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/9-11-2011-america-remembers.jpg?w=630" alt=""   /></a>For people all over the world, September 11, 2001 will be a day that lives in infamy in our memory. It was a day that profoundly changed the way most of us think about life &#8212; and a day that took so many lives and shattered the hopes, hearts, and dreams of so many others.</p>
<p>On that Tuesday morning I had been in my office at a residential children&#8217;s facility for about an hour when the phone rang. The voice on the other end belonged to my wife, Michelle . . . yet there was a timbre in her tone that instantly conveyed the message that all was not well. Immediately my thoughts rushed to my then eight-month-old son, Jackson, who was in the house with her. But before I could ask about him, Michelle interrupted and asked, &#8220;Have you seen the news?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; I replied, puzzled. I quickly clicked onto a news website and saw &#8216;BREAKING NEWS&#8217; in bright red.</p>
<p>&#8220;A plane has crashed into the World Trade Center,&#8221; she said, her voice shaking. &#8220;It&#8217;s bad, Garrick.&#8221;</p>
<p>I quickly headed to the TV room to turn on the news. Of course, finding the news wouldn&#8217;t be a problem, since it seemed to be on every channel. Within a matter of minutes, I, along with the rest of the waiting world, would soon discover that this was no accident. When the second plane hit the South Tower at three minutes past the hour, I remember my heart just sinking. Those of us gathered around stood speechless, in total disbelief of what our eyes were telling our brains.</p>
<p>In those moments the world as we knew it changed forever. Freedom turned to fear and anxiety to agony as the full scope of this attack on America unfolded in what seemed like slow motion. Within the hour another plane hit the Pentagon in Arlington, Virginia. Reporters on the ground struggled to explain what was happening. They couldn&#8217;t quite wrap their minds around it all either.</p>
<p>By the time <a class="zem_slink" title="United Airlines Flight 93" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=40.0511111111,-78.9047222222&amp;spn=0.01,0.01&amp;q=40.0511111111,-78.9047222222%20%28United%20Airlines%20Flight%2093%29&amp;t=h" rel="geolocation">United Airlines Flight 93</a> crashed in a field near Shanksville, Pennsylvania, I remember thinking to myself, &#8220;When will it end? What&#8217;s next?!&#8221;<span id="more-3502"></span></p>
<p>Of course, my job didn&#8217;t really afford me the luxury of becoming a shell-shocked couch potato, as much as I wanted to be just that. As the manager of that residential program, I was responsible for the emotional and physical well-being of a number of children, ranging in age from five to twelve years. As the houseparents received word that the schools were dismissing children, we all began to shift into survival mode. The kids would have questions. We all did. But the one thing none of us could afford to do was let the kids know we were upset.</p>
<p>I met quickly with our morning shift workers and discussed our action plan for dealing with the kids and their families. Above all, the plan involved channeling our adrenaline into positive thoughts and actions. Somehow on 9/11 the world seemed a whole lot smaller . . . a lot more connected . . . and a lot more caring.</p>
<p>As I went to the store that day, I couldn&#8217;t help but notice that every single person I encountered &#8212; from the customers in the parking lot to the cashier behind the register &#8212; was feeling much the same as me. I couldn&#8217;t wait to go to bed that night. I think something inside of me thought that maybe if I could just get to sleep, then when I woke up I&#8217;d realize that the chaos of that day had been nothing more than a bad dream. As I would find out on Wednesday morning, it was an absolute nightmare &#8212; a national one with far-reaching implications for every person on the planet: Evil is real, and there&#8217;s no way to escape its influence in our lives.</p>
<p>Now ten years later, I look back on 9/11 and feel things much the same that I felt on that very day. As I reflect on that dark time in our nation&#8217;s history, one thing stands out perhaps more than any other. In the few days following 9/11, people were nicer . . . friendlier . . . more grateful for the little things. In those times people turned to the church for comfort, for solace, and for answers to questions the world couldn&#8217;t seem to explain.</p>
<p>Like a person who suddenly lost a neighbor or friend, the whole country was made fully aware of the fragility of life, the uncertainty of tomorrow, the amazing lack of control we have over so many things. As we remember 9/11 and pray for those whose lives were irrevocably changed due to the evil plans of a few, wouldn&#8217;t it be great if we could somehow recapture that appreciation for life we all had once the fires were extinguished and the dust began to settle?</p>
<p>Perhaps the very best tribute we could offer on this day of remembrance would be to again hug our families tightly, do something kind for a neighbor, and thank God for the many blessings we each enjoy. The heroes who died bravely striving to save lives on that day wouldn&#8217;t want us to wallow in self-pity. They&#8217;d want us to fully embrace the wonder of this gift of life . . . to treasure each moment with family and friends . . . and to fight passionately to keep the freedom that still makes America a beacon of light today.</p>
<p>Surely we can muster the courage to do that. Surely.</p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S YOUR TURN!<br />
</strong>What 9/11 memories most stand out in your mind? What do you see as the enduring lessons from this page in our nation&#8217;s history?</p>
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