Our staff team is currently reading through Reggie McNeal‘s book, Practicing Greatness: 7 Disciplines of Extraordinary Spiritual Leaders. During our team meeting on Tuesday I had the privilege of leading the discussion of chapter three, which was on the topic of self-development. Admittedly, I’ve read a number of books from a wide variety of authors, both from the vantage point of great business minds and well-known Christian leaders. However, this particular book is proving to be one that challenges me to really evaluate myself in some tough ways.
We’re all familiar with the concept of lifelong learning — especially those of us who have to complete a certain number of hours for our professional licenses or affiliations. McNeal, however, talks a lot about something else — ‘lifelong un-learning.’ He defines that term as a “willingess to put yesterday’s ideas, attitudes, and approaches under the knife of new insights and new challenges.” This concept is not really that new to me, but I really like the way McNeal articulates it.
The author explains that unlearning, in the context of Christian ministry, must take place in several key areas: (1) psychological insights that leaders need to have about themselves and others; (2) ministry methodologies; and (3) the skill of cultural exegesis (which is basically a profound way to say ‘examining one’s worldview in an effort to stay fresh and current’).
In his book McNeal touches on a subject that I’ve been observing and talking about for several years: the changing process by which spiritual leaders are identified and developed. He writes:
Spiritual leaders who have trained for institutional leadership, who anchor their leadership in positional authority, and who rely on educational credentialing don’t understand the new expectations for leadership rooted in personal credibility, legitimized by followers, not external agencies. Leaders locked in the old world still believe that people think in secular-versus-sacred dichotomies and are expressing their spiritual quest by looking for a great church to join.
As one who has been well-educated by today’s standards, I must say that McNeal nailed this head-on. People in church and community life are not looking for perfect leaders with multiple academic degrees. They’re looking for people who care about them and who will come alongside them to mentor, nurture, and ‘do life’ together.
Whether you’re working on lifelong learning or lifelong un-learning, the process must be intentional. Those who seek to remain fresh and relevant in a culture that is constantly changing will need to employ a few key strategies in order to successfully reach the goal.
- We must be comfortable in our own skin. Although counterintuitive to the teachings of yesterday’s career coaches, we must focus not on our weaknesses but instead identify and multiply our effectiveness through our strengths. No matter where we go in life, there will always be someone who seems better in different ways. Better writers. Better speakers. Better thinkers. Once we accept ourselves with gratitude to God for His unique design, we will be better equipped to serve Him and others.
- We must put ourselves in places where we’ll be challenged. This will involve being willing to surround ourselves with people who don’t necessarily think, look, and act like us. By taking the time to have conversations with others, we will be better able to focus with laser-like precision on what it is we actually believe. We will also develop a deeper level of empathy for those who see life through a different set of lenses.
- We must have the courage to risk failure. There are very few guarantees in this life. Our ability to advance in our careers, to advance in a particular skill area, and to advance the Kingdom of God will depend on moving forward by faith, confident of His watchcare. Good leaders view even failures as opportunities for learning and personal growth.
- We must be proactive in taking care of ourselves. Even the best of leaders struggles with maintaining balance and emotional health. In essence, we have to keep doing the things we know we should be doing — getting proper nutrition, rest, and exercise; practicing healthy boundaries in interpersonal relationships; fostering appropriate accountability relationships and processes to help us stay on course.
Perhaps there are areas in your life that could use some re-evaluation — maybe even renovation! One thing is certain: Greatness doesn’t just happen. As the Apostle Paul put it so aptly: “But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” (Phil. 3:13a-14, ESV)
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