Change is hard

Sometimes even the simplest changes can be hard to take. For example, many users were frustrated by Facebook’s recent roll-out of a newly redesigned app that was missing the trademark blue borders. We get annoyed when our grocery stores move products to a whole other aisle or section. We get exasperated when our bank scales back drive-through services in order to force us to navigate online banking. That very thing has happened in recent weeks to some people I know.

Well, for listeners of NPR’s long-standing morning show, it was a change in the program’s theme music that caused some disorientation for many on Monday morning.

Since its inception in 1979, this theme had been part of the morning routine:

But this week listeners were greeted with this instead:

While producers and anchors had teased the change last week, most listeners didn’t take note until, well, the first notes were played.

“It’s so generic. The old music was distinctive,” one listener tweeted.

“Don’t fix what ain’t broke,” another chimed in.

One person required more characters to express his dismay: “It is just terrible. Simply awful. Gross even. Please…..Please. As much as I love Morning Edition, it’s going to make it very difficult to listen.”

Other listeners had positive things to say, but as with most such situations, the negatives seem louder and more numerous.

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When to call it off before the big day

Is there anyone in your life who is pretty serious in a dating relationship — or perhaps even engaged — who you think would do well to slow it down a little and think things through? There are some common red flags or warning signs that couples should pay attention to.

Check out this article I wrote for FamilyLife Ministries. Feel free to share it with others.

If you’re interested in finding a competent counselor, I can help get you connected. Just drop me a line.